Re: so furious!!
I'm sorry. That's kinda messed up of him.
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so furious!!
Original post by jackieee
We got an rsvp from one of FH's groomsmen. He's one of Dino's really good friends, but they dont see each other all the time. I've only hung out with him a handful of times, but still they are close and he was happy when Dino asked him to be in the wedding party.
So we get his rsvp today and it says no...no explanation...and he sent a check in it. So first I thought, ok he's probably just joking...and so did FH at first, but now he thinks he is serious. He called a mutual friend (also in the wedding) and he thinks he is being serious too. how strangeeeeeee![]()
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Dino is trying to call/text him but no answer. I just dont get it. If he was being serious, he would have to explain in the rsvp card right or call Dino??? We;d had people write reasons in the cards and even one of Dino's friend wrote a letter.
EDIT: So he's going on vacation...thanks for telling us you're backing out of the BP. I am so mad. Dino is so laidback...he could have just said he can't be in the bridal party upfront,
So we get his rsvp today and it says no...no explanation...and he sent a check in it. So first I thought, ok he's probably just joking...and so did FH at first, but now he thinks he is serious. He called a mutual friend (also in the wedding) and he thinks he is being serious too. how strangeeeeeee
Dino is trying to call/text him but no answer. I just dont get it. If he was being serious, he would have to explain in the rsvp card right or call Dino??? We;d had people write reasons in the cards and even one of Dino's friend wrote a letter.
EDIT: So he's going on vacation...thanks for telling us you're backing out of the BP. I am so mad. Dino is so laidback...he could have just said he can't be in the bridal party upfront,
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Re: so furious!!
Posted by jackieee
WOW! he got back to Dino. he's going on vacation...who does that?? I feel bad. That is sooo fuccked up. At least call him and let him know you can't be in the BP. I feel really bad for Dino. he said 'whatever' but that is messed up.
That is really ridiculous and could have a really bad effect on their friendship if you ask me...
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Re: so furious!!
doesnt sound like a 'friend' at all!![]()
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Re: so furious!!
Posted by StaceYums81
Posted by jackieee
WOW! he got back to Dino. he's going on vacation...who does that?? I feel bad. That is sooo fuccked up. At least call him and let him know you can't be in the BP. I feel really bad for Dino. he said 'whatever' but that is messed up.
That is really ridiculous and could have a really bad effect on their friendship if you ask me...
I know. He was upset about it. They've been friends for like 12 years... he's like 'I guess we arent as close friends as I thought.'
he;s not going to say anything though. i told him he should ask him *** happened!?
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Re: so furious!!
Wow!!! What an aaassss!! I would be really angry as well. He seems very inconsiderate, you are probably better off without him. ![]()
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Re: so furious!!
Wow, that's terrible!!! How could he not tell you and leave it to an rsvp???
Dino MUST be laid back because I'd be LIVID!!!!!!!!!
Whatever, I guess you have to just let it roll off your back. Do you have a backup GM or are you ok with an uneven bridal party? I have one, it's really no big deal.
Dino MUST be laid back because I'd be LIVID!!!!!!!!!
Whatever, I guess you have to just let it roll off your back. Do you have a backup GM or are you ok with an uneven bridal party? I have one, it's really no big deal.
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Re: so furious!!
Posted by Becca2010
Wow, that's terrible!!! How could he not tell you and leave it to an rsvp???
Dino MUST be laid back because I'd be LIVID!!!!!!!!!
Whatever, I guess you have to just let it roll off your back. Do you have a backup GM or are you ok with an uneven bridal party? I have one, it's really no big deal.
he was upset by it....i felt bad..he';s just not going to say something. I would!!!!! I want to. I dont mind. It's actually 6 and 6 now! :)
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Re: so furious!!
Disrespectful, yes. But boys are funny like that (not all of them, but there's plenty like that). Be mad (I would be too) but then put it aside and get on with happy. At least he gave you a couple of months notice.
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Re: so furious!!
Posted by jackieee
Posted by Becca2010
Wow, that's terrible!!! How could he not tell you and leave it to an rsvp???
Dino MUST be laid back because I'd be LIVID!!!!!!!!!
Whatever, I guess you have to just let it roll off your back. Do you have a backup GM or are you ok with an uneven bridal party? I have one, it's really no big deal.
he was upset by it....i felt bad..he';s just not going to say something. I would!!!!! I want to. I dont mind. It's actually 6 and 6 now! :)
Wow! That really worked out!!
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What a jerk! Why don't guys think?!?!
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Re: so furious!!
Posted by jennybee
Disrespectful, yes. But boys are funny like that (not all of them, but there's plenty like that). Be mad (I would be too) but then put it aside and get on with happy. At least he gave you a couple of months notice.
I am happy. It doesn't affect the wedding. I'm mad that he hurt my FH. There friendship is over now in Dino's eyes. He sees he's not a real friend. You don't do that to your boy for 12+ years yaknow? It's more than disrespectful in my eyes.
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Wow! That is rather ridiculous!
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Re: so furious!!
This is seriously the most f*cked up thing that I've heard yet
