So here it is...
tonight our rehearsal dinner... everything was WONDERFUL! getting ready to leave and FMIL has my dad and her minister and i see her wipping her pathetic tears from her face talking to my dad about how she feels i hate her!... does FMIL ever stop needing all the attention! she has treated me like CRAP, used her husbands passing which was almost 10 years ago as a guilt trip on me and now she has to start in on my dad! i have been so sensitive to that fact and she turned and used it to her advantage!
her son, FH's brother, verbaly attacked me one night while FH was deployed about 2 yrs ago calling me a mother f-n C over and over fight and flipping out for hrs till the wee hrs in the morning (8am)... him and his wife were being drunk a-holes at FSIL party and he later started in on me completely unprovoked, i even avoided him the whole night and didnt drink because it was the first time i was around him and FH was not there so i didnt know what his behavior would be like!... FSIL and i kept it all between us and she backed me up the WHOLE night... FBIL ran to mommy and made it out to be me! i never even opened my mouth and stayed away from him all night! so FMIL calls me and gets on my case and i told her i didnt wanna get into it w/her and asked her to call her daughter to get the truth... she did 4 months later.. and even after getting the truth she called me again attacking me about the situation which i just wanted to forget! she has done MANY other things through the years as i have posted here and there and i have continued to be more than cordial with her... dinner, wine, laughs... etc.. i wont trust her but i will get along with her.. and then she has the nerve to start in on this crap with MY DAD at the rehearsal diner.. so i am up now when i should have been sleeping for the last 2 HRS explaining to my father what has been going on with her.. Y the night before our wedding does she do this! the answer because she is so selfish and can only see that she is not the center of attention and this is her way of attracting attention! she trives on people feeling sorry for her and i no longer fall for her crying so she takes that has me hating her!.. no i dont hate her.. i dont like her a lot of the times with her childish, it's all about me behavior.. but i ignor it and be nice.. but NOW before my wedding she wants to start with my DAD!?!?! i just feel this time she has just pushed too far! i really dont know what to do or say to her.. FH has yelled at her and she crys and makes him more mad and she still does not get it! it is not just me.. it is FH too, she just want to walk all over everyone and just expects us to except that! will she ever just suck it up and admit she is wrong and just appologize? i just really hope she keeps herself more incheck tomorrow.. i just fear her interupting the ceremony because she has to 'say her peace' or causing a STUPID scene at the reception!.. uggggggg can not wait to get back to CA and our normal routine! i am so lucky FH is not blind to his mom!
Thanks for 'listening' girls!
her son, FH's brother, verbaly attacked me one night while FH was deployed about 2 yrs ago calling me a mother f-n C over and over fight and flipping out for hrs till the wee hrs in the morning (8am)... him and his wife were being drunk a-holes at FSIL party and he later started in on me completely unprovoked, i even avoided him the whole night and didnt drink because it was the first time i was around him and FH was not there so i didnt know what his behavior would be like!... FSIL and i kept it all between us and she backed me up the WHOLE night... FBIL ran to mommy and made it out to be me! i never even opened my mouth and stayed away from him all night! so FMIL calls me and gets on my case and i told her i didnt wanna get into it w/her and asked her to call her daughter to get the truth... she did 4 months later.. and even after getting the truth she called me again attacking me about the situation which i just wanted to forget! she has done MANY other things through the years as i have posted here and there and i have continued to be more than cordial with her... dinner, wine, laughs... etc.. i wont trust her but i will get along with her.. and then she has the nerve to start in on this crap with MY DAD at the rehearsal diner.. so i am up now when i should have been sleeping for the last 2 HRS explaining to my father what has been going on with her.. Y the night before our wedding does she do this! the answer because she is so selfish and can only see that she is not the center of attention and this is her way of attracting attention! she trives on people feeling sorry for her and i no longer fall for her crying so she takes that has me hating her!.. no i dont hate her.. i dont like her a lot of the times with her childish, it's all about me behavior.. but i ignor it and be nice.. but NOW before my wedding she wants to start with my DAD!?!?! i just feel this time she has just pushed too far! i really dont know what to do or say to her.. FH has yelled at her and she crys and makes him more mad and she still does not get it! it is not just me.. it is FH too, she just want to walk all over everyone and just expects us to except that! will she ever just suck it up and admit she is wrong and just appologize? i just really hope she keeps herself more incheck tomorrow.. i just fear her interupting the ceremony because she has to 'say her peace' or causing a STUPID scene at the reception!.. uggggggg can not wait to get back to CA and our normal routine! i am so lucky FH is not blind to his mom!
Thanks for 'listening' girls!
