so how do you REALLY feel about an e-party?

quite frankly I feel it's almost a money pit...on both ends. On one side I know it's going to help us out but on the other I feel it's too much with that, a shower and then the wedding.

I have been to some that were just too over the top and almost seemed like a reception so I just wanted to see how you girlies felt, what you did, etc, etc.

I am opting for a casual bbq over the summer and just want everyone to have a good time, enjoy the food, swim, drink, be merry, yadda yadda yadda lol.