Mine has his moment when he wants to help... and other time i want to just ring his neck!!!
kam0813
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my muffin has been involved since the beginning and he's excited about it..sometimes i have to press him to get involved but he never complains about it or anything like that...he's definitely a trooper
bride2b24
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well this is a sticky subject for.....basically FH su****** at wedding planning! now not that he should be good at it cuz then i would have a problem...lol.....but he could care less if i planned the whole wedding myself....all he cared about was RH and the dj.......he doesnt believe me when i say that things are booked up already! so what did i do? i take control of things got out the handy dandy check book and booked my vendors!!!! lol.....honestly i guess its easier with out dragging him all over long island instead im enjoying it with my BMs......this saturday he is coming with me to book photo
camposal
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FH has been completely absent from the planning process. He is currenty a first year medical resident in Michigan. It really ***** to have to do this all myself. He keeps saying 'if that's what you want'.. I wish he was more available to help and I wish he had opinions on stuff.
enjft
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All my FH does re: the wedding is attend LIW events
Nina
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Since he's been in Iraq, nada. When he gets home...Lets see
lisalisa27
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Mine has his moments also, where he wants to pick out songs and things like that. But as far as the researching and shopping he wants no part of because Im so picky and I will run him crazy and vice versa.
I do the plan he shows up
PegaLega
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FH has been good. I ask him for his opinion and he will give it, the hall part was the part he REALLY wanted to be a part of-he said the rest of it was whatever I wanted.....I still ask him what he thinks but hes good!
brittny817
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Since having the big traditional party is what he really wanted he has been pretty involved with the planning. I do most of the searching and make the phone calls but he comes to all of the vendor visits and is good about giving his opinions. I did spare him the Flower Michele visit. Flowers are just not FH's thing.
Soon2BeMrs2006
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he's come to every vendor appt. and when we were looking at halls went to each one with me.
werock0709
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We do everything together!!!! he's been awsome, and we have fun doing it too
D's Girl
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Posted by werock0709
We do everything together!!!! he's been awsome, and we have fun doing it too
Same here Mel Donnie is involved in everything. I don't go to one appointment without him.
chrissyandvin
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We have been doing the planning together! He's been good about it! Even though I know some things he could care less about.. he ***** it up and helps anyway!
tonimike
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Mike is the same way, he comes to all the vendors with me , then again its most his money LOL, but he wants to , if I said 'im going' he would be insulted if I didnt ask him.
He even came to oksana with me , he wanted to ,,
Other lilte things he aint to involved with , I will look into vendors tell him & then make the appts & he is right there with me.. Thats cool,
My mom & me are doing alot of the lil shopping , favors , ribbons etc,,
LuckySevens
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Mine has been incredible. Although he is not as wrapped up and obsessed as I am, he has been great in coming to appointments and talking about different things. He is some kind of wonderful!!!
thumper9878
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not helpful at all, but that's fine. Sometimes your just better doing things yourself and not getting your FH involved. lol.. :0)
But he helped with the band and reception hall. Yeah!!
SeptBride70
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with how my fmil treats me-- thank god i have him, he is the only reason i still have some sanity left... i love him so much and he must have been switched at birth b/c there is no way he came from her!!
yikes...
but other than that-- he has been great in so many other ways too. he comes to every showcase/ meeting/ etc... every little event! he is fantastic.
BrideChrissy
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My FH is involved, I wouldn't say as much as I am but he definitley is.
Hannah38
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I usually scout the information out, have all the information ready and discuss it with FH when he is taking a study break. He's in his first semester in graduate school and works full time!! But, he has been very supportive when I have a slight bridezilla moment, or when I am feeling down trying to figure out details.
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Posted by MrsMichel07
Mine has his moment when he wants to help... and other time i want to just ring his neck!!!
