A friend just told us that one of our other friends... a guy from college who we NEVER see... only in the summer when we go boating with the first friend... is pissed at us because he didn't get his save the date until a month after the first friend. He thinks we like made him a b list person. First of all, I can't help what happens in the post office... and second of all, no one b lists the save the dates... you only b list invites! We sent these months ago so apparently he has been pissed at us for months. He has no right to feel that way because in my opinion, he isn't a necessary invitee to the wedding anyway. Fh and I are inviting about 100 guests ourselves (not including parent's guests or family) which obviously shows that we are being outrageous with how many friends we are including. If we were doing good friends only, this guy would not even be invited. I called him to try and talk to him and explain the misunderstanding (even though I have no way to prove that I sent all the std at the same time) but he refused to speak to me. Some people!
nicopico13
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I would just brush it off, he'll get over it. Send him an invite, since he got the STD and if he comes great and if not, oh well! It doesnt sound like you really wanted him there anyway.
KPetekie
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that is what I'm doing. I am not upset about it because of the wedding... but its definitely going to be awkward this summer when I am hanging out with the first guy because we all always go boating together in the summer... so basically, he is insanely mad at Fh and me and we never did anything! You think he would have the decency to let us talk to him so we could explain things. He's be furious for months about something we didn't even do. I just don't like when people are mad at me... esp. when I don't deserve it.
WishfulRinne
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Posted by nicopico13
I would just brush it off, he'll get over it. Send him an invite, since he got the STD and if he comes great and if not, oh well! It doesnt sound like you really wanted him there anyway.
ITA
KimiDanny1010
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he has to get over himself...
i guess people have nothing better to do then complain about stupid things...
my grandparents got theirs a few weeks later than other people... i guess they think they are on the B list !!! hahaha
