with the planning? Mine is into everything I saw him the other day online looking at wedding dress ...don't get me wrong I am so greatful he wants to be involved with the planning but everytime I'm on the computer he's over my shoulder and is asking 'What's that?' or 'what are you doing?'
Should I ask him to step back and ask for his help when I need it or just let him be?
elysemichelle
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mine wants to know everything! he only has to come for certain things, but when i decide on items, he wants to know what they look like and see them first before i order anything! eg. colors, place cards, the bridesmiads dresses, BM jewelery, etc......
he is driving me up a wall with some of these things! but oh well, at least my FH wants to help!
dutchessev
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My fh don't care.
He says all I want to do is marry you so what ever you want I am happy with.
I just keep him inform.
My though is either we can argue and I get my way or I can just get my way.
Less Stressful.
lol
FutureMrsM
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Mine is involved in the big picture, vendor appointments, which vendors to book, he offers his opinions on things but that's about it, he knows that I enjoy doing this and that I am totally anal so he let's me do my thing and gets involved when I need him :)
kcreagh
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My FH just wants to know what time he has to show up at the church
Novbride09
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Mine is very involved
ddnsp618
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not at all...i asked him to help me with the STDs last night...he did like 10 and started crying that his back hurt...baby
Deeglasser
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LET HIM BE!!!!! i feel like if you push him away, when you need him he'll toss it back at ya!!!
FH is actually very good... he has helped a lot- well, really did all the work- he took care of the church and he is currently working on researching bands and pricing!!!
