Re: so i finally
well i would like to do a full mass but i am kinda gambling with the church at the current time. FH has not received confirmation & his parish only does adult classes on a sunday & sunday is football. so instead of fighting him & forcing him to go i found out by mistake yesterday that if i wait until oct 2009 to book my church he wont have enough time to attend the classes. which means that a church in my area will let us get married there with only one of us confirmed. so at that point i will take either a full mass or just the ceremony.
