so I have a date tomorrow night and

kdelace Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:11 PM

so I have a date tomorrow night and

I am making every excuse not to go..... I dont know why.... He seems like a really nice guy, cute.... I have to call him back and confirm and I keep procrastinating.......

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:12 PM

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GO!! What have you got to lose!!!!! Have a blast

RedHead Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:12 PM

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CALL!!!!!!

Ya never know!!!!!

TracyInQueens Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:14 PM

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Listen to your gut. Maybe deep down you know that even though he's nice it might not go anywhere?

I experienced that a few times and right before meeting DH I put off a 2nd date with someone who was nice, cute, etc. We did reschedule even though I wasn't into it. And it was really the WORST date ever.

Jax430 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:14 PM

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Go and have a great time!

FeliciaDA Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:26 PM

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Posted by TracyInQueens

Listen to your gut. Maybe deep down you know that even though he's nice it might not go anywhere?

I agree with Tracy .. as much as its easy for us to say 'go for it, give it a shot, etc' sometimes your gut feelings about things speak volumes.. Its probably so subconcious that you cannot really pinpoint WHY you are not into the date.. which is even more frustrating!

I hate to say it but if you were smitten with the guy and really 'feeling it', you'd have been on the phone calling him back by now ! (at least in all my years of dating fiascos, I always KNEW when I was forcing something as opposed to really being 'into'it)

but if you do call to confirm, keep an open mind - at the worst, you'll have a nite out on the town , perhaps dinner and drinks with a cute guy nonetheless

Jan05Bride Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:28 PM

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I'd say go with your gut, if you aren't into it right now, cut the strings. Good luck!

jantany26 Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:28 PM

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I also agree, give it a shot. At least have a good time even if it doesn't go nowhere.

JimmysBride Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:29 PM

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Why do you think you're procrastinating? There must be some reason... something he said, something he's done?

nov04LIbride Posted: Mar 31, 2005 08:39 PM

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Do you think maybe you are down about your nephew and not in the mood to 'act nice' for a date? Dates are tough. I wouldn't write him off yet! Maybe say you only have an hour or two free, so you can cut it short if you aren't having fun?

kdelace Posted: Mar 31, 2005 09:00 PM

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Posted by nov04LIbride

Do you think maybe you are down about your nephew and not in the mood to 'act nice' for a date? Dates are tough. I wouldn't write him off yet! Maybe say you only have an hour or two free, so you can cut it short if you aren't having fun?

I think thats a part of it. And Fridays I am so tired... We made it for Friday because hes a cop and he was off Wed. Thurs and Friday this week. He also lives in Nyack and the middle ground is the city to meet. For the first date, I woudnt want him coming all the way here and me going all the way there. andi hate traveling in the city in bad weather- its supposed to rain tomorrow.. Honestly if we were goingout Sat id be ok.... It has nothing to do with what he said or did...who knows!