so I met someone at the yankee game last night- interested in opinions..

Original post by kdelace

Oct 20, 2004 11:07 AM

I went to the game last night with my sister, cousin and a good friend of mine- compliments to my Dad who got us tix to cheer me up. :)
There were three guys sitting one row below us. One was really cute.. So of course when there is a bunch of guys and a bunch of girls you wind up chatting. Were high fiving when something good happened, were talking.... and I noticed there was chemistry between us.. I havent felt that in awhile..
it was realy cold at one point and he offered me his gloves.. O mean real gentlemen.
After the game, were walking out and he manages to find me through the crowd and ask if I would like to go to dinner sometime- he lives in the city.
I said yes and gave him my number.

I know I am in the process of getting an annullment and my husband and I just separated a month ago so IYO do you think its too soon? I mean if you have been following my story, my soon to be ex met a girl and made plans to go out with her.. But to me two wrongs don't make a right.
But its just dinner, it's a night out inthe city, he is a sweetheart from what I know of so far... What do you think...

If he even calls, he took my number so you never know...

mrswask Posted: Oct 20, 2004 05:58 PM

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You absolutely deserve a nice evening out with a nice guy!! Go out and enjoy it and have a great time!

Boop2704 Posted: Oct 20, 2004 06:14 PM

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If he calls, definitely go. You might not be ready for the romance, but you could make a new friend to go out and hang out with and maybe either him or meeting his friends could potentially lead you to future relationships!! I hope he calls!!!

kdelace Posted: Oct 20, 2004 06:34 PM

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well even see if he calls. He had a business trip to Houston today and was getting back later on tonight.
thanks for all of the advice

Sasha96 Posted: Oct 20, 2004 06:58 PM

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Posted by IrishTracy

I say if he calls go out. It doesn't mean you have to think long term relationship. It would be dinner. No biggie. And if nothing else you might get a great friendship out of it.

Well said Tracy! Hope he calls!

btrflygrl Posted: Oct 20, 2004 09:12 PM

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I say if you're ready, you're ready. If you want to see what he has to offer.....go for it. You are the only judge of what you are ready for. Best Of Luck Kristi.....keep us updated!

nov.bride Posted: Oct 20, 2004 09:55 PM

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You have nothing to lose- go out for a nice dinner and have some fun

Jen_n_Dale Posted: Oct 20, 2004 10:30 PM

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Things happen for a reason. So who knows what will happen, friends make friends who make friends. Best of luck!

palebride Posted: Oct 20, 2004 10:38 PM

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I say go for it!
Have a great time!

Florenze Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:40 AM

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Go out have fun! You're going to have to start going out eventually. There is nothing wrong and you might even enjoy the company. Have fun you deserve it!

maybride2004 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 06:21 AM

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I think you should go for it!!
U deserve it!!
Life is too short enjoy it.

Moehick Posted: Oct 21, 2004 06:54 AM

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You deserve a night out! Have a good time and enjoy

Danielle&Scott Posted: Oct 21, 2004 08:11 AM

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I agree...Go out and enjoy yourself. You deserve it. You have been through enough.
Scott

soon2bMrs Posted: Oct 21, 2004 08:17 AM

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I too was in a similar situation as you and I started to date DH about a month after my separation from my ex (Although, DH and I knew each other for 5 years). I think if you are ready, you are ready. Dinner is just dinner and I say go and have a great time!!! I don't think anyone can set time limits for greiving and getting over a relationship.