so i told FH i'm moving out Update

lookitscassie Posted: May 30, 2008 06:51 PM

so i told FH i'm moving out Update

he didnt really handle it well. he said he was really shocked. hes over at his moms now asking if he can move back in.

im like a hysterical mess. i know this is the right thing and i really need to move back to my parents. and i think fh and i will be fine. but its still really hard.

i just had to call my brother to tell him im moving back home and taking my old room back. ughhhh im such a mess right now

*updated* we decided last night to move out in 2 weeks. so we are gonna give the land lord our rent today and tell him we'll be out in 2 weeks so he has 2 weeks to show the apartment and what not and hopefully get someone to rent the illegal crappy apartment we're in lol

Summertimegal424 Posted: May 30, 2008 06:54 PM

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OMG honey! i hope everything is okay...im here if you want to talk

lanamanitta Posted: May 30, 2008 06:56 PM

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I hope you're ok . . . . are you ending things, or just moving back home for the time being?

dazies1011 Posted: May 30, 2008 06:58 PM

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Cassie just think you guys are doing this to save money and not be in a money pit, so to speak. When you get married it will be like a whole new thing all over again!!! It'll take alittle time but, everything will work out.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 30, 2008 07:04 PM

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Hang in there i think you made a great decision for your guys in the long term...though it might seem terrible right now, in the end it will make things much better for you

lookitscassie Posted: May 30, 2008 07:09 PM

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Posted by dazies1011

Cassie just think you guys are doing this to save money and not be in a money pit, so to speak. When you get married it will be like a whole new thing all over again!!! It'll take alittle time but, everything will work out.

this is how i feel. he apparently doesnt feel the same way. i dont know he wont really talk. hes just really quiet and weird. we will see i guess

Im a Pepper Posted: May 30, 2008 07:09 PM

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aww i know this is tough, but it's just temporary and you will both pull through! GL!

INNbride4409 Posted: May 30, 2008 07:11 PM

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oh...I'm so sorry to hear this but you will get through it!!!

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: May 30, 2008 09:23 PM

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Sorry that you have to move out. But if its the better decision(financially) then take the dive.

Its not as though the relationship is over because you dont live together anymore. This will help you save the money you need to. And you dont have to worry about how its going to be after youre married because, you already know that its a functioning relationship. Does that make sense?

Sometimes couples have to make sacrifices to move ahead in the long run. You'll be just fine.

GT143EA Posted: May 30, 2008 09:51 PM

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

Sorry that you have to move out. But if its the better decision(financially) then take the dive.

Its not as though the relationship is over because you dont live together anymore. This will help you save the money you need to. And you dont have to worry about how its going to be after youre married because, you already know that its a functioning relationship. Does that make sense?

Sometimes couples have to make sacrifices to move ahead in the long run. You'll be just fine.

I agree! I know its hard but its for the best. Good luck and keep us posted on how things are working out.

lookitscassie Posted: May 30, 2008 09:59 PM

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thanks guys. fhs mom said he can move back home and he says he understands so everything is ok :)

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 30, 2008 10:01 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

thanks guys. fhs mom said he can move back home and he says he understands so everything is ok :)

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good! glad things are working out!!

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: May 30, 2008 10:03 PM

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So there as long as you guys are both on the right page, things will be ok.

Sometimes when you have to make a major decision between the two of you, you see just how strong the relationship is.

And think about it like this, the time spent living at your parents house is a fraction of the lifetime you will be spending with FH. It will go by quickly and you will be able to save and have a great wedding & marriage.

Eweluska17 Posted: May 30, 2008 10:37 PM

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I hope you are ok.Good Luck!!!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: May 31, 2008 08:48 AM

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This is definitely the right decision to make. It may seem difficult now but just imagine how much more money you'll have by the time you get married. Plus moving in together will feel so new again!

dazies1011 Posted: May 31, 2008 08:54 AM

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Posted by lookitscassie

thanks guys. fhs mom said he can move back home and he says he understands so everything is ok :)

Good Im glad to hear that!!![

Ednkim4eva Posted: May 31, 2008 09:18 AM

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I'm soooo sorry....I hope everything works out for you.

MrsInglima Posted: May 31, 2008 09:27 AM

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I'm really sorry. If you think it's the right thing to do then just be strong and continue to try to make things work with FH and everything will be ok.

lanamanitta Posted: May 31, 2008 10:58 AM

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I was worried! It's a financial decision, and it sounds like a wise one . . . . good training for marriage and it will all work out better in the long run that you've saved money and taken away that added stress before the big day.