so im in the man 'hating' phase...

come on girl, don't give up on us. the special one is outhere waiting for you not to sound corny, but it's true it will be there when you are not looking for it, besides you seem like a great woman and you wont have any problems, you will see.

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Posted by Kriss2c

I was in your shoes for awhile and I have to say that when I finally stopped devoting my energy to them and started to focus it on myself, was when I met DH.


It will happen when you least expect it.

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Bingo... EXACTLY what she said.

I actually had a this awful streak going where it was REALLy hard to meet someone who liked me and I liked her. I went on a bunch of dates in a row where it felt impossible to get pass three weeks or even the second date.

If a relationship could go wrong, it went REALLY wrong.

I called myself 'the Red Sox of dating.'

Don't worry .. you're young and you have a lot of time to meet many guys. Remember you don't NEED a BF.. You may want one.. but you don't need one. Enjoy these years.. They're the best ones of your life.

And before you know it.. you'll have a significant SO at your side. (You just might have to kiss a bunch of frogs before that.. but don't worry.. he's out there.)

OK Michi, I was able to find some pics of those boys I mentioned.....do you think they're strong enough for you?!?!

lmao!!!!!!!!!!! thank u for the advice..all of you..some days i just need to hear it drilled into my brain, that i m young, sexy, and one day a good guy will find me lol..i m printing what u guys wrote to remind me of that lol..thanks!:)
its just hard not to get frustrated sometimes!!!





btw..love those pics hahahaha

I think that's a natural stage to go through. As you know I had a very similar situation to yours, and at first I dated like crazy - literally every night...then realized that I just wanted all men to drop dead. As much as this sounds like a cliche, the right man will come along when you least expect it, but never when you are looking for it.

When I met DH (a year after my break-up), I was considering the convent and did not at all expect anything to come of it, but when he turned out to be all the things I thought didn't exist (i.e. - handsome, smart, no games, and treated me like a princess), I started asking myself, 'What's the catch? When will the other shoe drop?' But there wasn't one and it never did!

michi-
Let me tell you somethings ! My last boyfriend i had before I met DH was a real moran, he would verbally abuse me and put me down all the time, he would treat me like dirt but I loved him all my friends told me i could do better and they said Roseann come on get rid of him you can do better and than in the year of 2000 in the summer time i broke it off with him i had enough. I would pray to god and i read this book about guardian angels and how you can write a letter to your guardian angel and start off the letter say thank you for listening to me and also say i would love to meet someone and you would write everything you would like in that guy and thanburn the letter in a can. now no lie when i say this I met Dh that November 17 i was set up on a blind date and here we are now almost 2 years married. A quote my mom said to me before i met dh you have to start from the bottom of the barrel to get to the top in other words you have get the worst men out of the way so you can have the Best. and Michi girl you will get the Best man ever because you are someone special and if a guy doesn't realize how special you are than they are not worth your time. I will pray hard for you to meet someone and if you want i will mail that book for you if you want to read it I just have to find it now.

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Posted by luvsbob4603

michi-
Let me tell you somethings ! My last boyfriend i had before I met DH was a real moran, he would verbally abuse me and put me down all the time, he would treat me like dirt but I loved him all my friends told me i could do better and they said Roseann come on get rid of him you can do better and than in the year of 2000 in the summer time i broke it off with him i had enough. I would pray to god and i read this book about guardian angels and how you can write a letter to your guardian angel and start off the letter say thank you for listening to me and also say i would love to meet someone and you would write everything you would like in that guy and thanburn the letter in a can. now no lie when i say this I met Dh that November 17 i was set up on a blind date and here we are now almost 2 years married. A quote my mom said to me before i met dh you have to start from the bottom of the barrel to get to the top in other words you have get the worst men out of the way so you can have the Best. and Michi girl you will get the Best man ever because you are someone special and if a guy doesn't realize how special you are than they are not worth your time. I will pray hard for you to meet someone and if you want i will mail that book for you if you want to read it I just have to find it now.

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This isn't my usual post but..

Luvsbob -- That's an awesome response you wrote for her.

Posted by OctGroom

Posted by luvsbob4603

michi-
Let me tell you somethings ! My last boyfriend i had before I met DH was a real moran, he would verbally abuse me and put me down all the time, he would treat me like dirt but I loved him all my friends told me i could do better and they said Roseann come on get rid of him you can do better and than in the year of 2000 in the summer time i broke it off with him i had enough. I would pray to god and i read this book about guardian angels and how you can write a letter to your guardian angel and start off the letter say thank you for listening to me and also say i would love to meet someone and you would write everything you would like in that guy and thanburn the letter in a can. now no lie when i say this I met Dh that November 17 i was set up on a blind date and here we are now almost 2 years married. A quote my mom said to me before i met dh you have to start from the bottom of the barrel to get to the top in other words you have get the worst men out of the way so you can have the Best. and Michi girl you will get the Best man ever because you are someone special and if a guy doesn't realize how special you are than they are not worth your time. I will pray hard for you to meet someone and if you want i will mail that book for you if you want to read it I just have to find it now.



This isn't my usual post but..

Luvsbob -- That's an awesome response you wrote for her.



Thank you Octgroom! I just wanted her to know i understand how she feels and how i went through something like that before I met Dh.

Michi I totally hear you! As you know I am single too, and it seems like all the guys that I have went out with since my breakup with my ex are all players, or I am just not attracted to them. It doesnt help any that all my guy friends are HUGE players, and it makes me think that all men are like that, even though I know deep down that they arent.

We have to keep hoping that 2005 will bring us luck in the love department!!

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Posted by luvsbob4603

michi-
Let me tell you somethings ! My last boyfriend i had before I met DH was a real moran, he would verbally abuse me and put me down all the time, he would treat me like dirt but I loved him all my friends told me i could do better and they said Roseann come on get rid of him you can do better and than in the year of 2000 in the summer time i broke it off with him i had enough. I would pray to god and i read this book about guardian angels and how you can write a letter to your guardian angel and start off the letter say thank you for listening to me and also say i would love to meet someone and you would write everything you would like in that guy and thanburn the letter in a can. now no lie when i say this I met Dh that November 17 i was set up on a blind date and here we are now almost 2 years married. A quote my mom said to me before i met dh you have to start from the bottom of the barrel to get to the top in other words you have get the worst men out of the way so you can have the Best. and Michi girl you will get the Best man ever because you are someone special and if a guy doesn't realize how special you are than they are not worth your time. I will pray hard for you to meet someone and if you want i will mail that book for you if you want to read it I just have to find it now.

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wow u blew me away with that post!! thank u truly!!!!..

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Posted by luvsbob4603

your welcome michi, its comes from the heart and i tell you just believe me you will find someone. i had a lot of jerks and now i have the Best man fm me if you need to talk.

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When I got that way, I met my husband. I was not looking to meeet anyone. I swore off men completely. Then I met my DH and my boss told me ' Date like a man'. It was the best advice I ever got in all my dating years. It will get better.