so im really pissed about my ex and my close friend..

MuchInLuvMichi Posted: Sep 13, 2004 10:02 AM

so im really pissed about my ex and my close friend..

We all know the Ex drama i had, now i hate to b a witch or anything but i really want him to b miserable since we broke up..unfortunatly i m hearing that hes doing great..finally got off his A$$ and got a new apartment with some roomies, a new job, and get this..after we broke up i had a friend who treated me really ******, she didnt ask me at all how i m doing, didnt take an interest that my heart was broken and he really dstroyed me..so after my breakup i cut things off with her, i sent her an email telling her that altho we were good friends i felt she acted very selfish and that i needed space from our friendship, and yesterday i find out that she is the one who helped my EX get this fabulous new job working at abar in the city...i m livid! after all he did to me she helps him get a job and now they work together, r u flipping kidding me! thank god i cut her out of my life cause not only does that say what kinda 'friend' she is, but i also dont need to talk to someone 'who has constant contact with him' it just really pissed me off..the only positive note is that a friend told me, that my ex made a comment on how he knows he will never find a better girl then me..blah blah blah..i sure wish this all didnt hurt so much :(..its so much easier to hate him then feel all this pain

Kriss2c Posted: Sep 13, 2004 10:13 AM

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TeReSa8A Posted: Sep 13, 2004 05:05 PM

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Dont worry about the past, you have a wedding to plan

Bebalina Posted: Sep 13, 2004 05:07 PM

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i hear ya...but at the same time remember y ur not together, and how much better ur FH is ...afterall u chose him right?

U'll be alright!

june262004 Posted: Sep 13, 2004 05:10 PM

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Posted by TeReSa8A

Dont worry about the past, you have a wedding to plan

Girls i think you are new here. She is not planning a wedding the ex that she speaks of is the ex. She is So MUCH better without him though!!!!!!!!!!

RedHead Posted: Sep 13, 2004 05:18 PM

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I had a 'friend' like that! My ex had fun friends that did a lot of cool things. After 5 years our friends became friends...
Well after we broke up my one friend, Kim, still went and hung out with my ex and his friends at the parties, the getaways etc..And would come back and tell me...
I got really tired of the stories and stopped calling her

kdelace Posted: Sep 13, 2004 06:47 PM

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i know it hurts and right now it is easier to hate him... itll get better though....

jenny2penny Posted: Sep 13, 2004 06:52 PM

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september2004 Posted: Sep 13, 2004 06:55 PM

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how are you getting this information?

you need to CUT THE TIES, for now at least. easier said than done, but really, it will HELP you in the long run.

the more you know, the more it will hurt - we've all been there...

WeDidIt! Posted: Sep 13, 2004 08:59 PM

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Posted by september2004

how are you getting this information?

you need to CUT THE TIES, for now at least. easier said than done, but really, it will HELP you in the long run.

the more you know, the more it will hurt - we've all been there...

DITTO!!!!!!

This is so true. Cut the ties. I know you may be curious and want to know what is going on with him. But you are making it harder for yourself. Trust me, I have been there. Even if people come to you with information, tell them you are not interested in hearing it. It's difficult to do, but this will help you in the long run.