ok with 5 months until my wedding day, I am starting to get really worried about EVERYTHING. From 'did I choose the right dress?' to 'Oh man, is the DJ going to have a bad night?' I'm not one to sweat the small stuff but this is driving me crazy now!!!!!!!!
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it is so normal. I'm 4 months away and we have a lot of big changes going on added onto the stress of the wedding. I've been freaking out lately but it's getting better. My FH is there to reassure me that it's all going to go fine.
We're meeting with our vendors for the final time (b/c FH is taking a new job and moving upstate before the wedding) so I have a chance to ease my fears with them.
Take it easy! All will be fine!
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yes its normal. it happens to us all! its when you reach a sort of 'planning plateau' and you don't have much to actually plan (like no need for all kinds of apointments, cause you've booked major vendors) and when you have nothing to worry about.......all you do is WORRY!
don't fret--just take this time to step away from the planning and just enjoy the summer! keep your mind off of wedding planning for a little bit and then come back to it. that's what i did , and it helped out so much.
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Yes, unfortunately, it's perfectly normal!!! And then one day you'll wake up and decide 'that's it, I just don't care anymore' and you'll stop worrying about every little thing. Remember, it's not important if the DJ has a bad night or anything else, the only thing that matters is that at the end of the day you and FH are married. Everything else is just bonus!!
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Posted by MJDoc12
yes its normal. it happens to us all! its when you reach a sort of 'planning plateau' and you don't have much to actually plan (like no need for all kinds of apointments, cause you've booked major vendors) and when you have nothing to worry about.......all you do is WORRY!
don't fret--just take this time to step away from the planning and just enjoy the summer! keep your mind off of wedding planning for a little bit and then come back to it. that's what i did , and it helped out so much.
Thanks!!!!!!
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I think it is normal. Mine is 4 months away and all I do is worry.
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I am starting to get nervous about things. I want everything to be done already.
Think tonight is a good night for a big glass or two of a nice red wine.
Lemons
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Posted by SusiBtoM
I am starting to get nervous about things. I want everything to be done already.
Think tonight is a good night for a big glass or two of a nice red wine.
funny you mentioned that b/c I just went on my lunch hour to buy a bottle of wine!!
Pinkiegirll07
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Oh it is normal!! I'm feeling the same way again, about everything from the dress to the BM dresses!! I just keep telling myself I made the right decisions!!
ErinC0119
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I have been worry a lot lately too. Everything will be fine.
TJ22908
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I have about 8 months left and I'm feeling this way already!! So I think it's normal!!
jsta76
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9 months and I worry all the time, we don't have everything booked yet tho so still more to worry about.
poisonivy918
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I have 10 months to go and I worry like that. from the did we pick the right rh, to the right photographer. then omg we still have so much to do *sighs*
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Definitely. I have days like that, but then other days I'm cool and calm and confident in all my choices. Don't worry, it will all be fine.
