So listen to this, my wedding is October 1

peabody Posted: Sep 09, 2004 11:59 PM

So listen to this, my wedding is October 1

and one of my BM's still hasn't order her dress.

For some reason I am not stressing (I should be), but it is out of my control now. I have other things to do than to worry about that.

All I know is if she doesn't have it on the wedding, she ain't in the Bridal Party.

Rainmama Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:00 AM

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That's INSANE! Um, does she realize your wedding is in 3 WEEKS!?!

EvenEdan Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:00 AM

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Uh, I don't think she's going to be in the bridal party. What is wrong with her?

myasmom Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:01 AM

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WTH...DOnt stress honey. Thats a good plan you have..Que sera sera (spl) Its her honor..if it doesnt work out..you have your other girls to stand by you

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:01 AM

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Posted by Rainmama

That's INSANE! Um, does she realize your wedding is in 3 WEEKS!?!

I KNOW!!

tourist Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:03 AM

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wow, that's soem sort of transendance you've reached!

I am the same way with Fh''s senile grandmother. OUr rsvp date was saturday & we haven't SENT her her invitation yet, b/c FILs have to give us the ok.

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:04 AM

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Posted by EvenEdan

Uh, I don't think she's going to be in the bridal party. What is wrong with her?

I shouldn't get into to much detail bec she is FI's sister. And I will most likely edit this post, BUT SHE IS A SNOB!!!!!

She bought a different dress to wear. Her own mother told her she couldn't wear that dress, that she had to pick one of the dresses I choose.

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:05 AM

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Posted by myasmom

WTH...DOnt stress honey. Thats a good plan you have..Que sera sera (spl) Its her honor..if it doesnt work out..you have your other girls to stand by you

I don't care anymore, it's a nice feeling.

nferrandi Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:09 AM

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Are you friggin' kidding me?! What the heck is wrong with her? There's no way she's going to have a dress by then, so you're right, don't waste your time worrying about it.

tourist Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:11 AM

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so you gave them a choice of dreses & she still bought a differnt one?

sheesh!

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 12:37 AM

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Posted by tourist

so you gave them a choice of dreses & she still bought a differnt one?

sheesh!

Yup, the dress color is Black and they got to choose out of 8 different styles.

swags1016 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 06:00 AM

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Posted by peabody

and one of my BM's still hasn't order her dress.

For some reason I am not stressing (I should be), but it is out of my control now. I have other things to do than to worry about that.

All I know is if she doesn't have it on the wedding, she ain't in the Bridal Party.

Great attitude to have but one question did you at least verify that the salon ordered the other dresses since a lot of times they wait to order the dresses together so they all come from the same dye lot. If they ordered them without her, then great attitude! I admire that!

CubanBride Posted: Sep 10, 2004 06:40 AM

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hmmm, yeah, she's crazy. I would have gotten rid of her a long time ago. That's a good plan you have. Maybe she just doesn't want to be in the bp anyway.

KelOct04 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 08:18 AM

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Mine is Oct 1 too... She hasn't ORDERED her dress? I don't think she is going to be bridesmaid if that's the case-they take a few months to come in. My wedding is 3 weeks from today and 2 of my bridesmaids have not gone for fittings yet and the bridal store does not have any appointments left for them.
I know what you are going through.. Kelly

btrflygrl Posted: Sep 10, 2004 08:20 AM

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Some friend...

I am SO happy for you Tara!!!

wc0143 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 08:29 AM

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YOWZA!!!! Good luck with it

julz33 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 08:37 AM

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I am glad you are not letting it bother you!

RedHead Posted: Sep 10, 2004 08:38 AM

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well i commend yo for being so calm about it!
I would have dropped her a long time ago!
why are people so self centered??????

B2BMay04 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 09:15 AM

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I commend you for being so calm. When I had a few weeks to go I was so stressed about everything going as planned. If this trouble maker hadn't gone along with my plan I would have told her to hit the road. My philosophy was it's my wedding it's going to be MY WAY ! (OOh did that sound a little bridezila) Luckily all went very well for me.
I wish the same for you, Good Luck with her.

JenniferLee111204 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 09:18 AM

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YOU CANT BE SERIOUS!!! OMG.

i am so glad that you arent letting yourself go nuts. good for you!

i have a question though - did your FH try talking to her?

Jennifer