So listen to this, my wedding is October 1

Original post by peabody

Sep 09, 2004 11:59 PM

and one of my BM's still hasn't order her dress.

For some reason I am not stressing (I should be), but it is out of my control now. I have other things to do than to worry about that.

All I know is if she doesn't have it on the wedding, she ain't in the Bridal Party.

Maribelle7777 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 09:21 AM

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if your FSIL didn't have the guts to say she didn't want to be in the BP then she's a loser.

Are all the girls wearing something different? She could have at least came up to you and said 'listen since we all have different styles anyway can I wear this?'

I do not care for people like her. And I think it's great that you don't care about the situation either. How does FH feel?

J.Lo24 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 09:22 AM

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My favorite motto is....'Everything happens for a reason!' So do not worry about it!

nov04LIbride Posted: Sep 10, 2004 09:39 AM

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So sorry you have to worry about her Tara! How selfish of her to force you to kick her out because she hasn't done this one little thing she had years to do. Hope it doesn't cause any conflict with you and her/FH's family!

HearzBellz Posted: Sep 10, 2004 10:29 AM

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um, please tell me that you are kidding

SANDNOV12 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 10:46 AM

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Wow what is wrong with some people. It's nice that you really don't care and it's better that way. Good luck and don't worry about her. She really doesn't matter at this point.

JacnRob729 Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:01 AM

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wow...how long does it take for the shop to get it in? or is it a dress she can just buy at a store/ have you asked her WHY?

Jola Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:04 AM

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Posted by peabody

Posted by tourist

so you gave them a choice of dreses & she still bought a differnt one?

sheesh!

Yup, the dress color is Black and they got to choose out of 8 different styles.

And she didn't like any of the 8 styles?

Geez..

Don't stress, she just wont be in it..if that is how you feel..

Bunnymonkey Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:21 AM

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YOU ARE ENLIGHTENED!

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:56 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

Some friend...

I am SO happy for you Tara!!!

She's Phil's sister. They are like night and day.

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:57 PM

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Posted by oct.2004bride

well i commend yo for being so calm about it!
I would have dropped her a long time ago!
why are people so self centered??????

Jen, that is exactly what I am asking myself. I couldn't really drop her, she is Phil's sister.

peabody Posted: Sep 10, 2004 11:58 PM

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Posted by Jola

Posted by peabody

Posted by tourist

so you gave them a choice of dreses & she still bought a differnt one?

sheesh!

Yup, the dress color is Black and they got to choose out of 8 different styles.

And she didn't like any of the 8 styles?

Geez..

Don't stress, she just wont be in it..if that is how you feel..

The BM dresses are from David's Bridals. I have 3 BM's out of state and I thought David's would be the easiest for all. Well, apparently the service they gave her wasn't good enough.

tourist Posted: Sep 11, 2004 12:01 AM

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Is the dress she bought black at least?

prindia Posted: Sep 11, 2004 12:05 AM

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I hate it when people think that they can do what they want to do at someone elses wedding

peabody Posted: Sep 11, 2004 12:07 AM

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Posted by tourist

Is the dress she bought black at least?

Yes, it is Black, it is a Neiman Marcus dress. I haven't seen it. I asked her to send me a picture and she gave me attitude and said no.

Her mom (my FMIL) went to visit her (she lives out of state) and told her that the dress, I think basically the material of the dress, will not match the other dresses. Plus, from what I heard it has some embroidary/texture thing going on. Her own mom told she wouldn't match.