So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye.

Hey girls.

So, I took a little break from the boards and upon my return, I encountered a lot of ridiculous, totally unnecessary drama from certain members. I've always been 10000% neutral and kind to the woman on this board and found this to be pretty appalling.

I've decided to peace out for good, as I really don't need total strangers writing to me just because they are nosey, getting in my business, speculating about my personal affairs, and then getting defensive when I respond with anything less than utter friendliness.

I have met some lovely ladies on this site and will continue to cherish the friendships that we have developed offline. I'm thankful for that.

For now, I bid you farewell. And for the haters, or whatever your problem is...have fun with your behind the scene blabbing about this thread.

I <3 you Mel!!! Keep in touch (and still come to parties)!!!!!

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Posted by futurestevens

wow, if this is in reference to kedra asking if you were still around, i'd say you might be overreacting *just* a bit

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What the heck? Why jump to conclusions? This type of catty-ness is exactly why I am leaving....not because of any thread that was started. Jeez Louise.

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Posted by mellyrose

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Posted by futurestevens

wow, if this is in reference to kedra asking if you were still around, i'd say you might be overreacting *just* a bit

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What the heck? Why jump to conclusions? This type of catty-ness is exactly why I am leaving....not because of any thread that was started. Jeez Louise.

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your initial response questioning kedra's 'morbid curiosity' was a little uncalled for, and you subsequently posted this thread. thought it was a clear connection. either way, good luck with the wedding planning.

Mel- soooooo sorry to see u go. Going to miss you on here.
It is unfortunate the way things happened. It would be so much better if we could all just get along.

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Posted by futurestevens

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Posted by mellyrose

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Posted by futurestevens

wow, if this is in reference to kedra asking if you were still around, i'd say you might be overreacting *just* a bit

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What the heck? Why jump to conclusions? This type of catty-ness is exactly why I am leaving....not because of any thread that was started. Jeez Louise.

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your initial response questioning kedra's 'morbid curiosity' was a little uncalled for, and you subsequently posted this thread. thought it was a clear connection. either way, good luck with the wedding planning.

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That was a different thread. I am speaking about things that happened off the public forums, and if we must get into detail, things that happened to other people as well that I just found to be rude and uncalled for. I liked this community at one point, but a few bad seeds have unfortunately made it a less fun place to be at times.

I don't know you, futurestevens...I don't know kedra either. I've never spoken to either of you on or off the boards. Even more reason for you to not assume things and attack me in this thread where I didn't mention names or point fingers.

This is my last post. I won't be replying to anything else. So if you feel the need to hijack my thread further, you will be talking to yourself.

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Posted by Andelano

Mel- soooooo sorry to see u go. Going to miss you on here.
It is unfortunate the way things happened. It would be so much better if we could all just get along.

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Maria - don't worry...we'll still see each other. :)

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Posted by futurestevens

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Posted by mellyrose

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Posted by futurestevens

wow, if this is in reference to kedra asking if you were still around, i'd say you might be overreacting *just* a bit

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What the heck? Why jump to conclusions? This type of catty-ness is exactly why I am leaving....not because of any thread that was started. Jeez Louise.

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your initial response questioning kedra's 'morbid curiosity' was a little uncalled for, and you subsequently posted this thread. thought it was a clear connection. either way, good luck with the wedding planning.

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Seemed like a clear connection to me too. If you are such a private person, then maybe its best you don't post on a public forum. Best of luck with your planning.

WTH??

I too had been wondering where mellyrose was. I figured I'd just been maybe missing her because I'm not logging lots of time on here.

Whatever happened, I'm sorry it turned out that way. Good luck with everything, Mel.

This is so w t f its not even funny. I saw that thread before and was baffled by thw mean response. Hey, i posted a thread asking where someone was bc i genuinely liked her postinh and missed her on the boards.

If your problem wasnt w kedra you sure made it seem like it was.

Obviously there are much bigger and deeper issues going on w you. To make a grand goodbye post when you act like you dont want any attention is very 10th grade.

I wish you well.

i guess i haven't been on as much and wow tonight i'm just so confused

sorry to hear you go but i wish you all the luck with the rest of you planning and happy marriage in the future

I hope you don't go through life being this sensitive.

Seems kind of immature to me.

Whatever. Good luck with the wedding!

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Posted by mellyrose

Hey girls.

So, I took a little break from the boards and upon my return, I encountered a lot of ridiculous, totally unnecessary drama from certain members. I've always been 10000% neutral and kind to the woman on this board and found this to be pretty appalling.

I've decided to peace out for good, as I really don't need total strangers writing to me just because they are nosey, getting in my business, speculating about my personal affairs, and then getting defensive when I respond with anything less than utter friendliness.

I have met some lovely ladies on this site and will continue to cherish the friendships that we have developed offline. I'm thankful for that.

For now, I bid you farewell. And for the haters, or whatever your problem is...have fun with your behind the scene blabbing about this thread.

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Ur right...
I think I may do the same if the boards are like this....
Bye chica! keep in touch!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK in anything u do!!!!