WOW that seems crazy!!!! BUT if i were you i think i would let the people paying decide who needs to be cut. you shouldn`t be stressing too much at this point about this! i know i handed over a list and them just let it go, my shower was last weekend and i had a blast! didn`t even think about who was or was not there!
GinaZ
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ya thatsounds annoying! Sorry!!!
Sad08Bride
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I'd just hate to walk into a room of 70 ppl and have strangers there when I could have had ppl there that I see every day! PLUS, do you really think these random girls whom I have never met would even WANT to come? I know if I were invited to their shower I sure as hell woudlnt go.
LuvMyAlfonse
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Personally - if your FMIL is gonna play that game - have her cut her whole family then.
It will hurt her more than it will hurt you.
I have no patience for BS in real life. Life is too short.
Princess Cut Bride
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That sux!!!!! I'm sorry you have to deal with this. That is very spiteful of her and I hope your FH can talk some sense into her later!
good luck! Keep us posted!
futuremrsfab
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If you already have her list- just invite the family members and ignore her request- its dumb and childish of her anyways
SoonToBeMrsScott
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so sorry u have to go through this
Sharron70
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Wow - that is AMAZINGLY passive aggressive! But you know what - if you her original list and addresses already, just invite those people and no longer discuss it with her - she can't add and she can't cut!
Sad08Bride
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I got scared and took down my OP! I feel like i have stalkers!