My fam is not getting along a lot of people that are on my guests list wont go unless I get rid of some of the people who are going that they don't like I cant understand why people want to make things soo crazy for me I am so ready to call it off ! Its even making me and my fiance argue anyone have advice they can give
shellibean
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Posted by bride2b28
My fam is not getting along a lot of people that are on my guests list wont go unless I get rid of some of the people who are going that they don't like I cant understand why people want to make things soo crazy for me I am so ready to call it off ! Its even making me and my fiance argue anyone have advice they can give
You are explaing my situation to a 'T'. I wish I had advice, the only thing I can say is that you guys have to stay united, try not to let other people's problems become yours. As I write this we are dealing with another situation with his family and I am really tired of it. FM me if you ever want to talk...and good luck!
ruzi777
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july06bride
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Dont sit them together of course
BUT, if you HAVE TO explain yourself to others-remind them that this day is YOURS and that if they are going to let others determine whether or not they will attend the wedding than it is not fair to you...BUT you will NOT be changing the guest list for them!
It's sad but true-people are selfish and dont realize that this is NOT their wedding, NOT their guest list...NOT their way!
