So My Dad's whole family isn't coming

So My Dad's whole family isn't coming

and that was my Sunday..this weekend just was crappy..my father and I do not speak, we basically hate each other coming from years of issues do to my parent's divorce and him doing stuff that isn't worth getting into on a public board. I have always been in touch with his side of the family (even though they are wacked)..now all of a sudden since I told them that no matter what, he isn't coming to the wedding nor is he walking me down the aisle which he wants to. Anyone with Daddy issues knows that this is a sensitive subject. So they get on my case about how I better watch out or 'suffer consequences' I was like what the eff?? He uses them left and right, doesn't have a job, lives in their den, and now he is God??? Anyway, the only people from the paternal side that's coming at this rate is my aunt by marriage and the kids who are the flowers girls. I know this all sounds crazy but I am just venting. Ugh..I hate them!!!!!!!!!

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Sorry you are going through this...but if they are gonna be sour bishes then your day will be happier without them.

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Awwww Sometimes our elders don't know better, even if we want them too... You are going to have a beautiful wedding... and those bitter people have to live with missing such a wonderful day.

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ur day will be so much beter w/o the drama but i feel for you so sorry this is going on my hugs for u

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I am so sorry! Try not to let this ruin your big day!!!!

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eff them. thats more of ur friends that can come.

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I'm so sorry u have to deal with this. I am dealing with a similar situation with my mom - I'm here if u ever need to talk or vent

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oh gosh that stinks.

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Im so sorry you have to go through this, i hope everything works out

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I am so sorry I will prayer they turn around

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. We have a similiar thing with FMIL. I hope everything works out for the best!

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No Dads side = No drama

You're better off

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wow, hopefully this will all blow over. But if not, you are better off without the drama.

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ughhh family drama is the story of my life youre better off chickie trust me i know it s u c k s but the last thing you need is people around you making you feel guilty on your wedding day

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Don't let this get to you. My dad is not invited to the wedding. I told him straight out that he can't come. But the rest of the family doesn't know yet so I don't know how they will react. I'm sure everything will turn out for the better. I just want to say do not let them 'make' you change your mind. Because it will make you unhappy on your wedding day and that will show through in pictures. You will have a beautiful wedding even though they are not there.

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Don't feel bad about who you don't want at your wedding. You only get one big day and you should be happy! I kinda have daddy issues of my own but I'm letting him walk me down the aisle with my mom, who prefers my stepdad walk me. But, as I said, it's your day...do what you want and don't let them get to you!

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Sorry you are going through this.....

(if you deal with the drama now your wedding day willl be stress free)

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I'm so sorry you're going through this! Don't let them ruin your special day

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Im so sorry !!