so not happy with people

i have gotten just about all my rsvp back and i am sooooo suprised about the number of nos we got back!! We are going to be over 10 below are min- def not happy about that- some are 'friends' i have had for ever and soooooo many are in my family- i could not believe it-- i even got one from a friend that came to my shower and sent the rsvp it just said sorry -- That it- i just dont get it.

sorry for the vent