So now we might end up with an extra groomsman

xcalystax Posted: Jul 31, 2006 04:49 PM

So now we might end up with an extra groomsman

Soooo with three months to go FH is still asking his groomsmen to be groomsmen because he has been debating who to put in the bridal party. He wants his two nephews (they are in their mid twenties) to be in the BP but I know he is worried that they won't show up (because they are flakes). I have 6 BMs, and now we might end up with 7 GMs if everyone says yes. My FH has been SOOO on the ball with everything regarding the wedding except with the GM issue (which I understood why) however I didn't expect that we would now be over the 6 GMs I though he would have originally. I really wanted everything to look even, but oh well. To top it off one of my BMs is a tentative as she was my brother's GF and now that went kaput so it remains to be seen how it works out.

Just needed to vent a little.

JohnnysGirl350 Posted: Jul 31, 2006 08:08 PM

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Keeping my fingers crossed for you that one nephew says no and BM decides to stay!

Chrissywish Posted: Jul 31, 2006 08:29 PM

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I've seen some adorable pictures with extra groomsmen....they just get two girls and what guy will argue with that....happened to a good friend...her cousin dropped out leaving one extra guy, and he was in heaven

ladybug78 Posted: Jul 31, 2006 08:36 PM

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We had 6 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen...My pics look fabulous! There is no rule that each side has to be equal and trust me, you will have alot more things to stress over!!! Everything will be ok!