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So now what??? Help!!!

BKtoLI Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:22 PM+

BKtoLI MEMBER SINCE: 6/05 TOTAL POSTS : 8517 WEDDING DATE: Apr 30, 2006

Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:22 PM

So now what??? Help!!!

So now that my MOH has finally given in and apologized for being such an azz, this has FH thinking since I have yet to cancel Jenn & Oksana.

I already emailed the girls and told them to come at 12. I have an appt booked for hair and makeup at Cactus just for myself, and I would have to be there at 8:30am and I would be done by 11:00. But I was really looking forward to getting ready at the hotel instead of driving to a salon that morning by myself.

FH says I should just keep the old arrangements and stick with Jenn & Oksana and tell the girls the original times I gave them (10, 10:30 & 11 which they had afterwards said they didn't have problems with) instead of going with someone that I never had a makeup trial with.

I'm kind of stuck, I would love to stick with Jenn & Oksana, but don't want to get backlash if I push the time back again.

What would you guys do in this situation?

trish71407 Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:24 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:24 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

you have to do what is going to make you happy, not everyone else! Its your day!

anglbyme Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:25 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:25 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

I def. wouldn't go somewhere I never had a trial at. What if...???????
I would stick with plan A
Good luck

jenntony Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:27 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:27 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

i would stick with the original plan

October Bliss Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:30 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:30 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

I would ask MOH if her turn around means she will be at the hotel at the appointed time. If she says yes, check with the other BM that gave you time hassles, as well as the one that didn't and see how they feel about going back to the original plan. I would do this by phone not by email. It just takes too long to get a response that way.

bluesashbride Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:34 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 10:34 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

I'm not sure about the time, but I found Jenn to be a dream and would not have taken a risk by not having her. I could not imagine my wedding day without the Jenn 'hair magic' factor.

BKtoLI Posted: Apr 10, 2006 11:07 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 11:07 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

Thanks!!!

I spoke to one of my BMs and she said I should just call the 2 who originally had the time problem and ask them directly. We shall see what happens.

chloeme2 Posted: Apr 10, 2006 11:48 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2006 11:48 PM

Re: So now what??? Help!!!

Posted by trish71407

you have to do what is going to make you happy, not everyone else! Its your day!

I agree Janna. These girls agreed to be your BMs and MOH which is an HONOR!!!! Stop thinking about everyone else and do what's good for you. (Lol, these are the very same words one of my BMs has been saying to me throughout this planning process). Anyway, seriously it's OK to do what's best for you for once!