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SO OVER IT- LONG VENT

kahlua716 Posted:

SO OVER IT- LONG VENT

I just typed this whole thing and accidentally hit a link on the side and now I have to vent all over!!!!!!

Thank goodness there's only about a month left- a month in which I have sooo much to do I don't even know where to start.

-We finally chose a limo company, we are dropping off the check tomorrow and going to find FH a wedding band and buy GM gifts...at least there's 3 things to check off

-Made an appointment on Monday to meet with the bakery today, they just called to cancel, the excuse being 'something came up and he won't be able to meet with you' So I rescheduled that for Friday since...

-FSIL and FBIL (FH's brother and his fiancee) have changed the plans for their b-parties, shich were supposed to be Friday night. Now they are going to be on the 10th, which sux because a few of my girls were starting to plan my bparty for the 11th, now at least 4 of the girls will be too tired/broke from the night before, and that leaves only the weekend before the wedding for MY b-party, and I already know 2 of my BMs can't make it that weekend. I'm really starting to feel P*SSED that his brother planned the wedding 2 weeks before ours...as if we don't have enough expenses and things to get done this month. FBILs having his b-party at Mohegan Sun---which isn't exactly cheap.

- I requested a specific Priest to marry us, and he has since left the Parish, but assured me that he would come back to marry us. I got a letter in the mail last week saying that from this point forward, a different priest is taking over all of the weddings that Fr. A has aggreed to do. They are sooo lucky I haven't printed up my programs yet.

-I keep getting calls and emails from random vendors (none that I've booked- just still trying to sell me their business), once it was my mistake for emailing a limo vendor from work and forgetting to remove my work number from the bottom. I CLEARLY stated that I would like an EMAIL back, but I still received a phone call at my office an hour later. This same vendor also made comments about how sometimes the best price means lower quality and that it would be a shame if they didn't show up or showed up with the wrong car or something on our wedding day. I took this as an insult to my intelligence...do these people think I would just hire any joe schmoe off the street...??!?!??!

I'm so SICK of it....


Thanks for letting me vent!
kahlua716 Posted:

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Forgot to add that neither I nor ANY of my BMs have a dress yet. . .and the dress shop doesn't think I should be nervous!!!
HeatherRose Posted:

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AWW Thats what we are here for, I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, weddings really bring out the best in families.. hang in there its going to get better.. remember in a short time you get to marry the man of oyur dreams in just a few eeks, and thats all that matters!
HeatherRose Posted:

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Posted by kahlua716

Forgot to add that neither I nor ANY of my BMs have a dress yet. . .and the dress shop doesn't think I should be nervous!!!



oh no, have they not come in, or you haven't selected?

If you haven't selected, I think David's bridal had off the rack dresses
if there not it, if there not concerned I'm sure they will be here very soon
Mmnnng Posted:

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BREATHE!! Whew!

I hear ya girl! I'd be pissed about the other wedding too...thats just wrong!

Tell these people to stop calling or you are filling a complaint with BBB...

Your BM and your dress will make it on time! I don't have ours either and only ordered them last month and my wedding is 22 days after yours so it'll work out!

I'm sorry about your Bparty... that sux. I don't know what can be done about that!

Good Luck!
bellaro782 Posted:

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OMg i have a feeling its the same Priest who said he would come back to marry us and will not be able to from our church is it st barnabas ???

kahlua716 Posted:

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Posted by HeatherRose


Posted by kahlua716

Forgot to add that neither I nor ANY of my BMs have a dress yet. . .and the dress shop doesn't think I should be nervous!!!



oh no, have they not come in, or you haven't selected?

If you haven't selected, I think David's bridal had off the rack dresses
if there not it, if there not concerned I'm sure they will be here very soon



They haven't come in...mine was supposed to be shipped on June 29th and the BMs on July 5th.
kahlua716 Posted:

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Posted by bellaro782

OMg i have a feeling its the same Priest who said he would come back to marry us and will not be able to from our church is it st barnabas ???



Nope, St. Rose of Lima, Father Andrjez...they moved him to work directly for the diocese of RVC as the Director of the Office of Worship
PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by kahlua716


Posted by HeatherRose


Posted by kahlua716

Forgot to add that neither I nor ANY of my BMs have a dress yet. . .and the dress shop doesn't think I should be nervous!!!



oh no, have they not come in, or you haven't selected?

If you haven't selected, I think David's bridal had off the rack dresses
if there not it, if there not concerned I'm sure they will be here very soon



They haven't come in...mine was supposed to be shipped on June 29th and the BMs on July 5th.



Try not to worry, my BMs dress came in 2 or 3 weeks prior to my wedding and I was losing my mind over it! They will come in

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