I am so angry right now my blood is boiling. Everytime I ask him before I make an appt if thats a good day/time etc and everytime he complains. We have a florist appointment at 2pm and he's like 'I'm too tired I don't feel like going' So now we get into this huge fight and I feel like he doesn't care about the wedding. He is supposed to care about this stuff. I have been asking him forever can we sit down and do the guest list. He was supposed to do it with me last night and he didn't feel like it. Then he said we would do it today after the florist. Now he's saying he's too tired today and that once our wedding is less than a year away he will do everything. Our wedding is a year and one week away! I don't understand I am scared and afraid he doesn't want to marry me!
KRISTIND
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my fh is a total groomzilla who wants to be involved in everything from the bridesmaid dresses to who walks with whom and my hair...so how about you take him to the appts and we can all be happy!!!!! i swear i will lend him to you...actually, you can keep him!
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Posted by kimmaymb20
awww
guys stink sometimes. Do some planning on your own and see how fast he moves his butt.
I agree start doing things yourself and see what happends. Or pick our hideous things then see what happends! I am sure he will come around dont worry. Also sometimes people think we have so much time ahead of us so who cares you can wait but you know better since you are the one on top of things. Maybe explain you need to do this stuff now so you both arent stressesd 3 months before your wedding.
NYYankeeGirl72
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Posted by JenBill61210
some guys are not into it. if you don't mind maybe you can check a few places on your own and drag FH to the top contenders?
Sorry to hear you are feeling like this.
ITA with JenBill61210
That is what FH told me to do for RH's. I made a top list and now he has started to look at them with me. Since both FH and I are paying for it, he only cares for what things cost. He doesn't care if I get floral centerpieces or candles. So as long as I get a good deal, he is 'in like flynn'.
So what should you do is get your mom and/or MOH (for example), someone who's opinion you respect to head out with you to do the grunt work.
My MOH went with me on the RH adventure. And we had a blast. Also, it really has brought us together. Maybe if FH sees you are doing things on your own, he may just may surprise you and want to go too.
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I'm sure he wants to marry you- he's just being a guy (no offense to the grooms on this site. You guys are different ) A lot of guys aren't into the whole planning process. I know my FH isn't.
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deanna225
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try not to let it bother u. some guys r not into it as much as us girls r.ask him if he wants u to go with ur mom or moh. see what he says with that.
Thanks everyone I went to the florist by myself and it worked out well
august09bride
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hi 09'er crashing.....i've gotten into continuous fights with fh over making appointments....florist i took my mom with me b/c he didn't want anything to do with flowers
but i totally understand where ur coming from....i had a major meltdown two weeks ago b/c he was hanging around with his friends and he knew i wanted to go register....it's stressful but it'll work out....he'll eventually jump on board, my fh has his good and bad days where he wants to help
