So pissed off!!!!!!

TurboGirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 01:53 PM

So pissed off!!!!!!

I am so mad at the girls in my bridal party (except my yongest sister who is 16) My Bach. party is supposed to be next week on 8/19 and I was planning it by myself. Non of the girls are helping and I just found out that 2 of my sisters are not coming! One just had a baby about a month ago and she just doesn't want to leave the baby home. I was like your husband can't watch him for a little while or your mom?! Your mom (my stepmom) watches your kids all the other times. She said she feels wierd. I was like ok fine. Then my other sister says she doesn't have money but she spent money to go see her boyfriend in NC. But I can spend money on driving her everywhere and whatnot. (she is 21 and doesn't drive) I have been calling my MOH for a few days and she has not called me back and my FSIL has been doing nothing. The only one that wants to help is my 16 year old sis but I can't even get her into anything. Needless to say nothing is set for the Bach party and I probably won't even have one now cause I am tired of no one caring. I always drop what I am doing to help any of them but that definitly will not happen anymore cause I am tired of being walked on.

So sorry for the rant I just really needed to vent.

cherilicious16 Posted: Aug 10, 2006 01:58 PM

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vent away! this is a very disappointing situation and i would feel the same way You should continue with your plans regardless with friends other than those in the BP!

SuzBride Posted: Aug 10, 2006 01:59 PM

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I don't have any advice, all I can offer is People tend to get hung up in their own worlds, and probably don't even realize the hurt they are causing you.

jayman Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:03 PM

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know how you feel -I will be planning my own and probably my bridal shower too -my sister is young, my parents are divorcing, one bridesmaid had a baby (no money or time) another is going through the jelous thing b/c she is over 35 and still single -I won't go on b/c I'll stress myself out.

MrsR72806 Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:05 PM

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I'm sorry you have to go through this...that really stinks that no one is helping you out or is interested in doing anything...I say that you and your younger sister go to the spa and have a day of relaxation!
I did that for my bach party...mainly b/c i had two teenagers in my BP and i wanted them included...we brought food, drinks and were pampered all day, its a great day to spend together! DEF recommend it

ewickens Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:11 PM

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vent away!!!!

StreetDoc6531 Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:16 PM

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Posted by cherilicious16

vent away! this is a very disappointing situation and i would feel the same way You should continue with your plans regardless with friends other than those in the BP!

I agree!!!

nypdgirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:18 PM

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I felt the same damn way! Everyone is either busy or lazy to even make a quick damn phone call, however after discussing things with the FH we have been together for over 11 yrs and not really into all that junk. We did our fairshare of partying and now we are just laid back. We figured doing a nice big dinner out and relaxing with the whole bridal party together. Some would say that stinks but we are not into all the other stuff..........Good luck! And don't stress about it.....

TurboGirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:40 PM

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Thanks so much girls. I am just fed up though. This problem is they only think of themselves and that is all the time. I am tired of being the bigger person all the time if there are fights or always doing what ever they want and need. I am defintily done with it all!

TurboGirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:41 PM

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Posted by MrsR72806

I'm sorry you have to go through this...that really stinks that no one is helping you out or is interested in doing anything...I say that you and your younger sister go to the spa and have a day of relaxation!
I did that for my bach party...mainly b/c i had two teenagers in my BP and i wanted them included...we brought food, drinks and were pampered all day, its a great day to spend together! DEF recommend it

That sounds like a great idea! If nothing happens I definintly will do that! Thanks for the idea!

nypdgirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:42 PM

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Posted by TurboGirl

Posted by MrsR72806

I'm sorry you have to go through this...that really stinks that no one is helping you out or is interested in doing anything...I say that you and your younger sister go to the spa and have a day of relaxation!
I did that for my bach party...mainly b/c i had two teenagers in my BP and i wanted them included...we brought food, drinks and were pampered all day, its a great day to spend together! DEF recommend it

That sounds like a great idea! If nothing happens I definintly will do that! Thanks for the idea!

Ditto that! Is a wonderful idea for just the girls......

TurboGirl Posted: Aug 10, 2006 02:42 PM

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Posted by jayman

know how you feel -I will be planning my own and probably my bridal shower too -my sister is young, my parents are divorcing, one bridesmaid had a baby (no money or time) another is going through the jelous thing b/c she is over 35 and still single -I won't go on b/c I'll stress myself out.

wow that is horrible! They did do a good bridal shower but my mom is the one that really got stuff done. They were doing things the last minute. I hope everything works out for you.

MrsR72806 Posted: Aug 10, 2006 03:32 PM

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Posted by TurboGirl

Posted by MrsR72806

I'm sorry you have to go through this...that really stinks that no one is helping you out or is interested in doing anything...I say that you and your younger sister go to the spa and have a day of relaxation!
I did that for my bach party...mainly b/c i had two teenagers in my BP and i wanted them included...we brought food, drinks and were pampered all day, its a great day to spend together! DEF recommend it

That sounds like a great idea! If nothing happens I definintly will do that! Thanks for the idea!

No problem!!!!