so i walk into work to day to find a voicemail on my phone ...of two people that i work with ( one being one of my BM's) talking about me ! i guess they didnt hang up the phone correctly after one of them called me/ so i went to one of them and joked around about how i heard this and how if they are calling my 'her highness' then i should be getting paid a lot more if i am royalty! lol i was totally not bothered by the situation i just figured that they should know i heard their conversation. so then the other ones goes...Kim if you have a problem with me say it to my face ...i told her to grow up and stop talking about me she proceeded to try to push me out of the room by slamming me with the door!!!!!!!!! she was cursing at me and calling me a little gitl...meanwhile all i have done is help her since she has started here. now i am the type of person that if u put ur hand or anything on me i flip! somehow i kept my cool ...but now i know that she is trying to get me in trouble...i just want a new job and i am applying everywhere but am having no LUCK! i knw it was the girl that is my BM telling her something i said which probably isnt true also i want that BM out of my wedding so bad ...all she does is talk about me because i know for a fact that she is jealous of me becasue i am getting married and i moved up in the company. i cannot even begin to tell u how many problems she has caused me !
what the heck am i gonna do girls??? i cannot work like this anymore!
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Kim, I am late.. I just wanted to say I'm so sorry this happened to you today!!!
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You are SOOO good that you were able to keep your cool. That wouldn't have been the same situation with me...I'm such a hot-headed Italian lol! I had a similar situation but with my cousin...she was calling me the 'princess' of the family and going on blah blah blah cause she's bitter.
Be better then them, pay them no mind and just brush ya shoulders off
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You are SOOO good that you were able to keep your cool. That wouldn't have been the same situation with me...I'm such a hot-headed Italian lol! I had a similar situation but with my cousin...she was calling me the 'princess' of the family and going on blah blah blah cause she's bitter.
Be better then them, pay them no mind and just brush ya shoulders off
oh believe me i am a hot headed italian also!
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oh i know ...and the best is this woman is like 40 something !!!!!!
WHAT!? Take solace in that. That there is actually a 40-something woman who STILL resorts to name calling. Sad.
wait! Bon, didn't you call someone a dirty prostitute???
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oh i know ...and the best is this woman is like 40 something !!!!!!
WHAT!? Take solace in that. That there is actually a 40-something woman who STILL resorts to name calling. Sad.
wait! Bon, didn't you call someone a dirty prostitute???
Yeah, but that was so OBVIOUSLY true!!!! Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
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wow get out and lose her as a BM what a B--otch!
good luck let us know if you get a new job and kick her to the curb!
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ALL I HAVE IS HUGS FOR YOU GIRL!!
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aw thanks ...i have decided to be the bigger person and just drop it ...my boss is aware of what happened and he told me he is behind me all the way in whatever i decide so that is good enough for me...i may be the youngest (or a little girl according to her) but i think i am being the bigger person in this situation
girls i have to say u really helped me out and i really appreciate it
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Yay!
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First of all sweetie, don't cut your nose to spite your face. Meaning ig you like your job and you got a promotion don't let her mess that up for you. Also, you are in the middle of planning your wedding and you don't need anyone aggavating you. You especially don't need to go any where because at a new job you are going to have to start all over again and you might need to take a day or two off and your not going to have any days so think about what you are about to do. Forethermore, If you don't want her in your wedding then let her know and keep it moven. That is you and you FH day and you don't need any negatvity around you. If you know that she is jealous of you then you don't need her around you. Smile and be blessed
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Baby don't you waste your GOOD TEARS ON THAT CHICK.Plus your going to need them for your day and days before. It's going to be fine. Girl she's not the only one that is going to HATE on you so forget about those no MEN, NO RELATIONSHIPS, NO LIVES, NEVER GOING TO GET MARRIED LOL CHICKS. You have bigger and better things to think about
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That's great to hear Kim! Good for you!
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Baby don't you waste your GOOD TEARS ON THAT CHICK.Plus your going to need them for your day and days before. It's going to be fine. Girl she's not the only one that is going to HATE on you so forget about those no MEN, NO RELATIONSHIPS, NO LIVES, NEVER GOING TO GET MARRIED LOL CHICKS. You have bigger and better things to think about
ur too funny ! i know and that is exactly how she (the one that is my BM) is ....no BF totally insecure of herself and hasnt gotten any in two years ...sorry but its true!
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Posted by kimnsteve and hasnt gotten any in two years ...sorry but its true!
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I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better about the situation and that you know that your boss is supportive of you. Now, have a drink!
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I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better about the situation and that you know that your boss is supportive of you. Now, have a drink!
i could sooo use one! you have no idea!
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Let your work proformance speak for you. As long as you know you are doing what you are suppose to don't worry. Always remeber when one door is closed God will open another one, So go to your desk or the bathroom and pray and leaveit to God.
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aw thanks ...i have decided to be the bigger person and just drop it ...my boss is aware of what happened and he told me he is behind me all the way in whatever i decide so that is good enough for me...i may be the youngest (or a little girl according to her) but i think i am being the bigger person in this situation
girls i have to say u really helped me out and i really appreciate it
Good for you Kim!
I hoped you kicked that other girl out of your BP too!! You know we're always here for you!!!
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glad everything seems to be working out!!!!!!!
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Don't speak to your boss today though since you're pretty upset. Think about it all tonight and have a talk with him tomorrow once you've 'cooled off'
I agree. . .when something like this happens u feel like u have to approach the situation right away. . .you should just wait til tomorrow so that you don't say anything too harsh. ..wow I feel terrible. . .I don't know why ppl have to be so mean
