So sad!!!!!

Hawks Nest Posted: Sep 18, 2008 11:13 PM

So sad!!!!!

I just feel as though all this wedding/shower is doing is causing misery in my life. I do not think one day this week has gone by with out me crying. I feel like all this wedding/shower is doing is getting people into fights with each other, causing people to go out of their way and making me upset. I feel like what is the point, is it all worth it.

Wifeynella Posted: Sep 18, 2008 11:20 PM

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Posted by Hawks Nest

I just feel as though all this wedding/shower is doing is causing misery in my life. I do not think one day this week has gone by with out me crying. I feel like all this wedding/shower is doing is getting people into fights with each other, causing people to go out of their way and making me upset. I feel like what is the point, is it all worth it.

you took the words out of my mouth. i think if it this way... the wedding is for everyone else - at the end of the day you and your FH will be married. The marriage is worth it.

Hawks Nest Posted: Sep 18, 2008 11:26 PM

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Posted by BklynBride2Be

Posted by Hawks Nest

I just feel as though all this wedding/shower is doing is causing misery in my life. I do not think one day this week has gone by with out me crying. I feel like all this wedding/shower is doing is getting people into fights with each other, causing people to go out of their way and making me upset. I feel like what is the point, is it all worth it.

you took the words out of my mouth. i think if it this way... the wedding is for everyone else - at the end of the day you and your FH will be married. The marriage is worth it.

I really hope so becasue right now I want to crawl under a rock. As of now my MOH and I are not even speaking anymore.....

Kimbalina Posted: Sep 19, 2008 07:28 AM

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You'll be ok. Let those people know that it is stressing you out.. and then tell them what YOU and FH want!

SparkyandAng Posted: Sep 19, 2008 07:35 AM

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I just said this last night....weddings and funerals just bring out the worst in people. IT's sad.

But in the end, you will marry your best friend and the memories you have from your wedding day will absolutely be worth it.

lizzie217 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 08:10 AM

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Im sorry ...there are hard times but keep in mind that in the end you will be marrying the man you love and thats what the most important thing is huge to you

bluekat16 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 09:40 AM

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Just remember this is about your marraige to your best friend and stay focused. EVeryone will have an opinion just take it with a grain of salt and keep moving. Def. let them know that it'stressing you out.

melissatam2008 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 01:02 PM

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cheer up , weddings r supposed to be beautiful memories n no matter what u should always try to c the best side of everythin...i think most of the brides go through this..i know i did , but i never forgot that at the end is only my DH n I, and thats all it matters...

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Sep 19, 2008 01:05 PM

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It's TOTALLY worth it.

I HATED the world when I was planning. I was crying, eating, crying, eating.

Then the wedding day came and poof - it was wonderful and happy and special. It's totally worth it.

Consider it a rite of passage. It's really not that bad - we think it's worse than it is...

Hawks Nest Posted: Sep 19, 2008 03:27 PM

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Thanks guys. I really needed some cheering up this week....

KiTTeN0819 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 05:52 PM

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I really thought i was the only one feeling like this. I am happy to hear its somewhat normal. I think ill let FH read this too... Hes starting to think im going to stay like this forever..

lyss0908 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 06:05 PM

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I hope so. I know how you feel. Just know that we are here for you and know what you are going through(at least i do!)

jrzygrl Posted: Sep 19, 2008 07:26 PM

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I AGREE!!!! but try to keep in mind that for most of the guests it's just another wedding... in all honesty you, the FH and extremely close friends and of course immediate family it will me the most and you and your FH will remember this day forever! just focus it on YOUR DAY (as in the 2 of you) starting a new life together-- forget everyone else... somehow it's taken me a while but it's true there's noone else that this day will mean more to then you and DH... just breathe and keep smiling it will be worth it.