so sad =(

Original post by BRIDE62610

Mar 24, 2010 07:08 PM

so I'm sad to say, that 3 months before our wedding, we MAY be calling it off... I took FH to the Emergency Room on Sunday afternoon b/c he wasn't feeling well and well, we've been in ICU since then and he's in severe renal failure :( It has been the most trying and emotional thing that I've ever gone through in my life and not a day in my life did I imagine that at 26 years old I woul dhave a dr tell me that had we NOT gone to the dr when we did, he wouldn't be waking up next to me anymore :(

He received 6 blood transfusions, and 2 rounds of dialysis. Tomorrow they'll biopsy his kidney and tell us on Friday (which is EXACTLY 3 months to our wedding) what the plan of action will be.

Needless to say, he will be out of work (hopefully not indefinetley)... I need to take a leave of abscence from my job to care for him as well as transport him back & forth for dialysis and on top of that still pay our bills :(

Anyway, the moral of my story is not to make everyone sad... but just to remind you all.. live each day as if it's your last & ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS tell your loved one(s) that you love them and kiss them as much as you can.. Because until they almost arent there.. you DONT realize how much you really do need your partner.

brickbybrick Posted: Mar 27, 2010 10:36 AM

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I'm so sorry. God bless you and your fiancee. I know you don't know me, but I will keep you in my prayers.

cheryl78 Posted: Mar 27, 2010 10:46 AM

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Thinking of you! Sending prayers your way!

lpk586 Posted: Mar 27, 2010 10:56 AM

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I simply can not imagine, as I'm sure you would've said a few weeks ago. Please know that you and your fiance are in many people's prayers.

belvedere Posted: Mar 27, 2010 10:57 AM

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OMG... I hope everything is okay. Praying for you both.

TheFutureMrs2011 Posted: Mar 27, 2010 11:02 AM

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So sorry to hear.. Hope he gets better soon!

FutureMcBride Posted: Mar 27, 2010 12:17 PM

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Many prayers and positive vibes for your FH to get better soon!!! His health is the priority, you can get married at any time!!!

luvly73 Posted: Mar 27, 2010 12:26 PM

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LovinMichael44 Posted: Mar 28, 2010 12:02 AM

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I am so very sorry to hear about this.....you and your FH are both in my prayers and I pray that he will be okay....stay strong and know that you have all of us on here for support!!

BRIDE62610 Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:50 AM

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Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes, it means so much.

FH is doing okay, he's still in the hospital, but seems to be getting stronger. We had a few bumps in the road over the weekend and he was losing alot of blood =( but they seem to have it underway. I am getting ready to go visit him now and see how everything is going. Hopefully he will be able to come home sooner than later, because the hardest part of all of ithis is leaving him at the hospital and coming home to our empty home =(

He has received a few dialysis treatments and the drs have said he's taking well to them, we are hoping to receive his biopsy results tomorrow and we'll be able to go from there.

I've put off calling our RH until the results come in so I can tell them exactly what's going on, and partially because I am PRAYING they come back and everything is okay... It's just all very scary!

Thank you to everyone on here. It means so much to all of us!