so I'm sad to say, that 3 months before our wedding, we MAY be calling it off... I took FH to the Emergency Room on Sunday afternoon b/c he wasn't feeling well and well, we've been in ICU since then and he's in severe renal failure :( It has been the most trying and emotional thing that I've ever gone through in my life and not a day in my life did I imagine that at 26 years old I woul dhave a dr tell me that had we NOT gone to the dr when we did, he wouldn't be waking up next to me anymore :(
He received 6 blood transfusions, and 2 rounds of dialysis. Tomorrow they'll biopsy his kidney and tell us on Friday (which is EXACTLY 3 months to our wedding) what the plan of action will be.
Needless to say, he will be out of work (hopefully not indefinetley)... I need to take a leave of abscence from my job to care for him as well as transport him back & forth for dialysis and on top of that still pay our bills :(
Anyway, the moral of my story is not to make everyone sad... but just to remind you all.. live each day as if it's your last & ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS tell your loved one(s) that you love them and kiss them as much as you can.. Because until they almost arent there.. you DONT realize how much you really do need your partner.
dctead
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You're in my prayers... So sorry you both have to go through this!!
shelbylove918
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kris_gets_hitched
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Wow. I'm so sorry that you guys are going through this. I'm going to keep you both, as well as your families, in my prayers.
Know that you have an entire community here that you can turn to for strength and support.
Stay strong.
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Keeping you and your FH in my prayers
soontobmrsmike
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I'm so sorry to hear the terrible news. I will keep you and my FH in my prayers.
TheOne4Paisley
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God is a healer and a miracle worker! Praying for you guys!
stressfree111
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las1
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omg i am so sorry i hope your FH gets better soon my thoughts and prayers are with you
CarolAnn721
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You are both in my prayers!!!!
kat2010
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i'm so sorry you are going through this,....be strong and things will get better.
i donated a kidney to my mom so i know what renal failure is if you have any question feel free to fm me.
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i am so sorry to hear this and send lots of prayers and hugs to you and your fh
if there is anyting i can do to help please let me know
futurestevens
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i am so sorry you and FH are going through this. my thoughts are with you both
Soon2bMrsH
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im so sorry you are going through this.........
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omg! I just saw this! How scary! Thank god you rushed him to the ER!!!!
I know 2 people that had kidney transplants and are both living wonderful lives now.
I also know that renal failure doesnt always mean the kidney has to be removed.
I;m keeping my fingers crossed for you and your FH.
Stay strong. It will help him.
Wow, I'm just so sorry...you guys are so young. :(
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I am so sorry, I will keep you and your FH in my prayers
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praying for your FIs speedy recovery!
Mommy2BeBride
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Oh my gosh, I am so sorry you are going through this.. You and your FH are in my prayers!
