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Original post by BRIDE62610

Mar 24, 2010 07:08 PM

so I'm sad to say, that 3 months before our wedding, we MAY be calling it off... I took FH to the Emergency Room on Sunday afternoon b/c he wasn't feeling well and well, we've been in ICU since then and he's in severe renal failure :( It has been the most trying and emotional thing that I've ever gone through in my life and not a day in my life did I imagine that at 26 years old I woul dhave a dr tell me that had we NOT gone to the dr when we did, he wouldn't be waking up next to me anymore :(

He received 6 blood transfusions, and 2 rounds of dialysis. Tomorrow they'll biopsy his kidney and tell us on Friday (which is EXACTLY 3 months to our wedding) what the plan of action will be.

Needless to say, he will be out of work (hopefully not indefinetley)... I need to take a leave of abscence from my job to care for him as well as transport him back & forth for dialysis and on top of that still pay our bills :(

Anyway, the moral of my story is not to make everyone sad... but just to remind you all.. live each day as if it's your last & ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS tell your loved one(s) that you love them and kiss them as much as you can.. Because until they almost arent there.. you DONT realize how much you really do need your partner.

rockysmom23 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 07:59 AM

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Oh sweetie! I am so sorry u r going thru this. Just remember to be strong for him! If u need ne thing let us no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Us girls r here to help u!!!!!!!

MrsVtoBe Posted: Mar 25, 2010 07:59 AM

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I am so sorry that you and you fiance are going through this.

You both are in my prayers

kimmy02 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:09 AM

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i am def thinking of you and your families...
after reading your post it gave me chills. please hang in there.

annnng Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:28 AM

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SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ALL THAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH. IT IS TRUE THAT LIFE IS SHORT AND PRECIOUS AND WE DO TAKE FOR GRANTED WHAT WE HAVE. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. AND I HOPE YOUR WEDDING WILL STILL TAKE PLACE CAUSE IT WILL BE THE MOST SPECIAL DAY OF YOUR LIFE. MORE SPECIAL THEN IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BEFORE. ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND FH

Jna2010 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:31 AM

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im so sorry to hear this, youll be in my prayers

StaceyWill Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:41 AM

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I’m so incredibly sorry!!!! You both will be in my prayers!!!!

Lsorrent Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:43 AM

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Notwedyet08 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:17 AM

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halfbaked Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:27 AM

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OMG! Thank God you took him to the hospital when you did! My heart goes out to you and both your families! I hope he gets better soon!!

jwleewedding Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:32 AM

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I'm so sorry ... i wish you both the best!

bigsal Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:33 AM

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AwaitingAugust Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:33 AM

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i'm so sorry you and your FH are going through this .. hugs all around ... i hope the doctors give you some good news soon!

MisyMiss32 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 09:53 AM

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My Pryaers and Thoughts are with your FH and you. Please don't give upand hang in there. My heart truely goes out to you!!
Prayers and Pixie Dust coming your way!!

hamptonsbride2010 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 10:04 AM

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My heart goes out to you! Stay strong for him!!!

norajo Posted: Mar 25, 2010 10:10 AM

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I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. You are in my prayers.

pjc92980 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 10:27 AM

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my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families

BRIDE62610 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 10:40 AM

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Thank you to EVERYONE.. Your well wishes and kind words mean more to us than we can EVER express.

I can't thank you all enough... There's no way possible to do so.

Again, thank you for everything and to everyone! It's great to know that I have such a great support system on here.

And...as someone said earlier.. God only gives you what you can handle!

Labelle Posted: Mar 25, 2010 11:04 AM

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God be your rock... So sorry dear.

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Mar 25, 2010 11:05 AM

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omgosh...I felt queasy reading this. I'm so sorry you and you FH are going through this, especially at such a young age but don't give up hope. One step at a time and at the end of the day, a wedding is nothing compared to the health of you and your loved ones.

Best wishes!