So I've posted a few times that my grandfather got very ill recently which has been so upsetting. Now we found out Friday FH is getting excessed from his school. Originally he was going to get a second job over the summer to pay off the vendors but now he has to look for a new job so he cant get a second job. This means we are out of money and have to cancel our private car for the day of and I have to cut back flowers and albums. We've worked so hard and now we just cant make everything happen. I'm so sad.....
GinaZ
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I hope your grandfather feels better!!
And Im sorry you dont have the finances you were counting on. I know its very frustrating!!
Browneyesncute
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Cutechef729
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I'm so sorry!!!!
bluekat16
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My prayer go out for your grandfather to feel better and for FH to find something soon!
FinallyEngaged
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for ur grandfather for you and FH that you are going through this right now. I hope he finds a job quickly
LeeLee111
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Thanks for the support ladies....
SoonToBeMrsScott
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I am so sorry things are not going the way you want but no matter what goes wrong always remember you are marrying the man you love and as long as both of you show up that day and confess your love for each other nothing else matters
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So sorry to hear all of this.
Is your FH have tenure? I am not a teacher so I don't know for sure but I thought if you were tenured and excessed from you building that at minimum they had to find you a replacement within the district?
LeeLee111
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No he's not tenured, he has 1 year to go.
twright5ny
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OMG..so sorry to hear of all this....its hard enough to loose a job but in the middle of wedding planning it could just be that much harder....hang in there as best you can
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im so sorry
i'm sure everything will work out in the end
mRm2008
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Praying for you hun Don't get sad over this, you will still have a gorgeous day
oktom22
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Very sorry to hear this! But no matter what you will have a beautiful special day, b/c you are marrying the man of your dreams!!!
Also in the meantime, can your FH do any tutoring, I hear the going rates are pretty good right now for that.
debismom
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Lisa, I'm praying for Grandfather, and your financial situation!!!!!!! Love, Mary MOB
JC297
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Lisa,
Sorry to hear about your grandfather.
I'm sure you and FH will figure something out and no matter what your going to have the best day ever!
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Ask your photographer if you can add albums later. Maybe you can use some gift monies to pay for them. As for flowers, im sure they will be beautiful even if you need to cut down, or maybe ask about cheaper flowers all together..
Juanita80
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just don't stress....
KimberlyScott
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I'm sorry to hear about this news. I wish the best for you, your grandfather and FH. Your day will be just beautiful, don't stress it. It takes away from the fun of planning. Good Luck!
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Sorry to hear. You guys will make it though. You (and everyone else) will never remember if you didn't have a car service or if you had less flowers. I'm not even ordering albums because they can be made online much cheaper. Just try to keep your spirits up... and FH's too. We're here if you need anything!
