So sad today... Need hugs.

Ladies,

I am SO bummed out. Most of you know that I have been searching for a hall - fell in love with Lands End. But out of our budget. So I booked an appt with Lombardis on the Sound for tomorrow at 6p.

FH and I have a beach vball team and one of our make-up games is tomorrow night at 6:15p. So, we are 5 games ahead in first place. We play four games a night. This make-up game tomorrow is a regular league play make-up game. So even if we lost all four and the second place team won all 4, we'd still be in first by a game.

He's giving me a hard time about us missing it. ***?!?!?! It doesn't even matter we'd still be in first!!!!

On top of that....the other night, I asked him if he wanted to go out with my friend who just got engaged. I say 'can we go out with Rosie and Ed Friday night?' And he's like 'I guess so.' Again, ***?!?!?!? They just got engaged!!! Let's go out and celebrate with them! And trying not to get angry, I say 'it makes me upset that you answered that way, why did you answer that way?' He said, 'I don't know, I didn't give it much thought.' Real condescendingly annoyed like. Why couldn't he just say 'Sure babe!'. Everytime he asks me to do something with his friends or fam, I say yes, not only do I say yes, I get excited about it. I love being a part of each other's lives. Sometimes I feel like it's only his way, his friends, his fam.

Sorry so long but I'm so sad!!!

Im sorry to hear that you r upset ...but you have to understand one thing ....he is a GUY
they will never think how we think or act how we act so don't get urself to upset ...go out with ur friend no matter what he says ...sometimes they just gotta deal with what we want to do ....ya know !

ps here's some hugs

Geez. Men need a good kick in the a$$ from time to time!

Ugh - Try not to take it personally. They really DON'T think about those kinds of things. Sometimes it amazes me when my fh gives me a blank stare when I ask him why he didn't consider my feelings on certain matters/ideas. They just don't get it.

I have a good feeling about this weekend - I really do! It's all going to work out!

I have been in this position before with my FH. I don't think guys ever look at the opposing side of things. Just switch it around and be like how would you like if I did this. Rocco usually understands once I do a flip like that. Sometimes guys can be soo thickheaded. But don't worry hunnie it happens to everyone

Thank you girls. Everything is all better now... I never told him how upset I was so I just ate it. Pick your battles, right?

Thank you for the hugs! I needed them!