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So settle this for me... Is it 'cheating' to fantasize?

Original post by 12-3Princess

I say no (as long as you don't ACT on it OBVIOUSLY)! It's natural to be attracted to someone else and maybe even fantasize a little - but my friend (already married) says it's cheating to even think about it...

Do you think it's cheating to have a thought about someone other than your DH/FH?
marymoon Posted:

Re: So settle this for me... Is it 'cheating' to fantasize?

I think whether it's a celeb or a real person it just depends on the extent. like if you have a friend and once in while you flirt or you think 'omg he's so hot' is totally different from thinking of him more, or nearly as much as you think of your FH

luvsbob4603 Posted:

Re: So settle this for me... Is it 'cheating' to fantasize?

No I dont think its cheating!

beautyq115 Posted:

Re: So settle this for me... Is it 'cheating' to fantasize?

I don't think its cheating BUT it would make me upset if I knew my FI was fantasizing about someone else

littlebookworm4 Posted:

Re: So settle this for me... Is it 'cheating' to fantasize?

nope but don't tell me about it!

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