so I hardly go on here cause since we moved into our house we dont have a computer yet (till after the wedding and I cantgo on at work really)im so stressed with the planning i wanna cry tho. the rsvp/guest list in generalis making me sick and I haven't even started the seating yet
ttdiff11
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aw well congrats on the house. it will all work out!
melcc83
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I hear you, what i have been doing is just try to acomplish noe thing at a time instead of looking at it as a whole
FutureMrsGi
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you're not alone hun...this is a very stressful time, u have every right feel the way u do, I've been feeling the same EXACT way over the guestlist! Just remember why u are doing this and it is not to make other people happy. Just take a step back and realize that everything will work out in the end and u will enjoy ur special day.... ((hugs))
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Ok, when was your RSVP date?
I would enlist the moms on each side to stalk your family ones that are missing...my MIL was AWESOME at this, lol
Then have FH call his friends that are missing, facebook people, whatever you need to do to get them. I just got my last RSVP on FRIDAY and my wedding is 3 weeks from the day I got the last one.
Then I took everyones names and wrote them on post its, and laid them all out on the living room floor...from there i started grouping people together. My fam, his fam and then friends...work friends, old friends, etc...it ended up being easy for the most part.
Then assign each of em a number and you're all done! Its not as bad as everyone makes it out to be!
KittyGags
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Also, get a xanax, stat!
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Sorry to hear you are having a tough time with it. All I can say is everything will work out one way or another. Just think of the prize at the end of the wedding
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thanks so much girls, honestly I was dealing well, Im organized so I did make a list tis morning of like the last 30 people that my fmil has to call however...........I find out from fsil that o since you way far from your capacity mom invited people from boston!!I was just like umm thats fine but I hope when i speak to her today she doesnt tell me she invited an extra 20 people seriously I was going to sit next week at do my seating I dont need this!!I just cant waittill seatings done, I know the rest is fine, send me good vibes girls
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Posted by KittyGags
Also, get a xanax, stat!
Absolutely! Xanax = my new BFF!!
gina409
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breathe!!!!!!! best advice is to do one thing at a tim...finish up one then start another...it will all work out
anything we can help u with?
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hi hunny! don't stress! tell your FMIL that anyone she invited AFTER the fact needs a response ASAP. as far as the seating goes, don't let it stress you out! i took sticky notes and paper plates and made tables then arranged them! don't get overwhemled! you have so many great things happening!! xoxox
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Posted by KittyGags
Also, get a xanax, stat!
couldn't hurt!
bride2binli
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u r all so sweet :) panda I want more belly pics please! I miss u guys I need a freakin computer I feel so out of touch. I think it was just the way fsil was speaking to me, it wasn't exactly nice and the state of nerves I am in right now anything could set me off
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Posted by bride2binli
u r all so sweet :) panda I want more belly pics please! I miss u guys I need a freakin computer I feel so out of touch. I think it was just the way fsil was speaking to me, it wasn't exactly nice and the state of nerves I am in right now anything could set me off
haha i'm working on it! i was acutally thinking today might be a good day for an update!
i understand feeling so stressed and getting edgy with people. you have a lot on your plate. do what i think gina said it, take it one thing at a time and you'll be fine!
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Ask for help if possible! I had Fhs mom do the seating for her family, my mom helped with our family and my sister did her table. I really helped a lot!
