So STRESSED! :( Need Venue Help ASAP!!

So I've visited 5 RH so far and have not fallen in love with any. I went to Sand Castle,Woodbury CC,Jericho Terrace,The Inn at NHP,and Crest Hollow CC. They were all nice in their own way but I hate SC's street location,Woodbury halls thrive on paying 6-8k for decor on top of pp price,The Inn was too expensive and not feeling the st location neither,and CHCC was beautiful outside, and beautiful drive in entrance,but the ballroom looked so BAD to me, and I hated JT lobby and chair covers and linens in rooms looked so cheap and rundown, so now I'm stuck. I will be visiting North Ritz and Bridgeview YC this weekend. I'm looking for a RH with beautiful grounds,updated and elegant ballroom,good view and big bridal suite. Basically a place like Chateau Briand :) (btw thats not an option as my bro was married there)...any suggestions in Nassau County? If anything which would you pick based off my criteria above, WCC,SC,JT, BYC, or NRC??? PLEASE HELP!!!!

You definitely need to check out the Carltun! It's in Eisenhower Park. They have everything you mentioned: beautiful grounds, gorgeous ballroom and a large bridal suite! Highly recommend

I'd check out NRC. The grounds are nothing to write home about, but the ballroom is gawjus, and they're not as expensive.

I can't wholeheartedly reco them though because they were my original hall and then we had to switch our date and they had our money and sold our new date to someone else the day before we already had an appointment to sign a new contract...and they HAD our MONEY. Unngh. I got the money back though finally. I am just really turned off, and felt the Inn @NHP treats us much better even though we're paying like $30 more PP

Good luck... but just keep in mind.. many brides have booked or had weddings at many of the places you just called... cheap, rundown etc.
Try Manhattan Penthouse