So Stressed out--

--to the point I am thinking of not walking down the aisle.

And its all over the RSVP drama-and all FH's family fault!

why is it that 44 people look at my thread and and only one replies? lol Sorry I didnt post about anything more interesting!

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Posted by luckycouple05

why is it that 44 people look at my thread and and only one replies? lol Sorry I didnt post about anything more interesting!

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idk if youre joking or not...

but there are plenty of people that look at the boards that done even have an account...

as far as the RSVP's go... what is the issue exactly?

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Posted by AngnShaun

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Posted by luckycouple05

why is it that 44 people look at my thread and and only one replies? lol Sorry I didnt post about anything more interesting!

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idk if youre joking or not...

but there are plenty of people that look at the boards that done even have an account...

as far as the RSVP's go... what is the issue exactly?

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Thanks Ang I was going to say the same thing.

urgh, I'm sorry.. what rsvp drama?

as for the # of responses, I agree, a lot of people look who dont post or don't even have accounts.

can you have your FH take care of the RSVPs?

try to breathe. it will all work out. what is the problem?

WAIT..people dont have to be logged in to read??!!!! no wonder we have lurkers!!



The problem is FH invited people without telling me causing our total invited to be 205. We guaranteed 165 and it looks like every1 will be coming. I know many of u said people say NO, but in my case it really does look like every1 will come! (every1 invited was family and they are all within the state-so I dont see them saying NO).

I guess lesson learned..my rsvp date is July 15th..
I sound crazy I know, I have never ever stressed anything in my life and this wedding is making me a totally different person.

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Posted by luckycouple05

WAIT..people dont have to be logged in to read??!!!! no wonder we have lurkers!!



The problem is FH invited people without telling me causing our total invited to be 205. We guaranteed 165 and it looks like every1 will be coming. I know many of u said people say NO, but in my case it really does look like every1 will come! (every1 invited was family and they are all within the state-so I dont see them saying NO).

I guess lesson learned..my rsvp date is July 15th..
I sound crazy I know, I have never ever stressed anything in my life and this wedding is making me a totally different person.

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Sorry. I dont get the problem? Are you mad that you're going to have tro pay for 205? How many people do you have that rsvped so far? how many are you missing? I guarentee some will say no.

if your numbers are too hig, see if you can negoiate with your RH to upgrade or do something since you are having a lot more than you guaranteed. good luck. sorry you are stressing.

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Posted by luckycouple05

WAIT..people dont have to be logged in to read??!!!! no wonder we have lurkers!!



The problem is FH invited people without telling me causing our total invited to be 205. We guaranteed 165 and it looks like every1 will be coming. I know many of u said people say NO, but in my case it really does look like every1 will come! (every1 invited was family and they are all within the state-so I dont see them saying NO).

I guess lesson learned..my rsvp date is July 15th..
I sound crazy I know, I have never ever stressed anything in my life and this wedding is making me a totally different person.

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I'd definitely take a deep breath.

I know you don't think people will say no, but they WILL. We are STILL getting no's, and the wedding is on Saturday. I thought we weren't going to get any no's either. We freaked out because on our RSVP date it looked like we were going to have 215 and we only wanted 180. We're going to end up having 198 ( if no one else cancels!). Are you concerned about paying? Are you mad that he invited them without telling you (how did that happen, btw?). Relax. It will all work out.

JUST BREATHE.... RSVP drama was def a pain in the azz but dont let it ruin this for you!!!! I know its easier said then done sometime but it will all be ok in the end!

Unfortunately it seems like the closer the wedding gets the more stressed we all get. That causes us to have breakdowns. I have been having daily freak outs on FH. It is so bad that I called him today with some good news and he answered the phone saying 'did you call to yell at me again!'. Try to relax. You will get some no's even if you think you won't.