so testy!

I feel blah all day today. I have massive amounts of work to do -wedding and job related. I feel overwhelmed and don't want to do any of it.

Now my lil brother is beginning to plan his wedding and calls me every day to discuss my vendors and wants to know all of the details and costs and budget! I snapped. I have been repeating the information over and over - I don't want every detail of my wedding an open book. They keep judging me.

He hung up on me bc I snapped and told him I'm not planning his wedding

huzpa! u did all the research and planned everything and now he wants to ride YOUR happy train??? LOL

little brothers are so annoying. but still they are lil bro
so call him back and tell him that u were under stress at work and that u didnt mean what u said, but he needs to understand that right now all these questions are too much for u. and he should come back for the help when u are married off, then u will be more than happy to advice and help out

when is his wedding?

his wedding is in June next year i think.

I adore him and I always help- that's why I created a sample budget template for them with lists of vendors, and tips. Ahh the guilt!

Dont feel bad - you guys are siblings, people snap - its fine. I understand how annoying that would be though .. tell him you'll help him as much as you can (sounds like you already are!) but right now you are 3 mths away from your wedding and will help as much as you can when your weddings over..