So there was a friend I wasn't supposed to invite to the wedding...

b/c FH pretty much hates him. I didn't know, he and I are friendly and I figured since he's in our extended circle of friends, I'd send him an invite. FH was like whatever.

Then he called FH while we were in Miami a few weeks ago at 1am REPEATEDLY because our other friend's ex gf's father wants something for his computer (it wasn't serious at all - he needed like a web cam or something).

Are you serious? THAT deserved multiple 1am phone calls?? FH screamed at him and told him he'll never help him again.

Now he won't send back the RSVP card or answer my texts about if he's coming or not.

FH and I want to take back the invite.

I have this text prepared to be sent later tonight (maybe around 1am )

'Hey, since you never sent the rsvp card or responded to my fb msgs and my text, I'm going to assume you're not coming to the wedding. I think at this point, it's best if you don't anyway since you don't care enough to let us know if you're coming or not.'

It's bad, but he's a little effing b!tch. Seriously.

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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Posted by elp6421

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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He could show up and he's a d!ck anyway, he pulls crappola like this A LOT, he DESERVES that text. I am sooooooooooooo tempted...

I wouldnt send it either. had an episode last week where i lost my cool on a friend and that didn't end so good.

i agree with the others. text fighting is second to fb fighting.
as much as i would hate to do it, i'd call and leave a message on his vm.
same message though- he sounds like a little beech

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Posted by cateydee

i agree with the others. text fighting is second to fb fighting.
as much as i would hate to do it, i'd call and leave a message on his vm.
same message though- he sounds like a little beech

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this. leave the voicemail in a nice tone though, they say kindness kills.

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by elp6421

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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He could show up and he's a d!ck anyway, he pulls crappola like this A LOT, he DESERVES that text. I am sooooooooooooo tempted...

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Psshhh send the text. He'll probably show up like nothing is wrong on the day of if you don't!

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by elp6421

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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He could show up and he's a d!ck anyway, he pulls crappola like this A LOT, he DESERVES that text. I am sooooooooooooo tempted...

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Psshhh send the text. He'll probably show up like nothing is wrong on the day of if you don't!

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lol Jill! I knew someone would see it my way!

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by elp6421

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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He could show up and he's a d!ck anyway, he pulls crappola like this A LOT, he DESERVES that text. I am sooooooooooooo tempted...

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Psshhh send the text. He'll probably show up like nothing is wrong on the day of if you don't!

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lol Jill! I knew someone would see it my way!

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I got you!

Send the text! You dont want this guy showing up unannounced. The text isnt THAT harsh - he deserves it for being a douchhhee and ignoring you

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Send the text! You dont want this guy showing up unannounced. The text isnt THAT harsh - he deserves it for being a douchhhee and ignoring you

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I agree! He's being an A$$!!! I had someone I work with keep telling me she was coming she was coming she was coming. She quit the job and still told me a couple days after she left she was DEF coming. She never sent back the RSVP card. I text and called her and she NEVER responded (keep in mind this woman was 53 years old). I finally called her and left a vm telling her 'I never got your RSVP and you're ingoring my calls. I thought we were closer then this being that I did actually invite you to MY wedding. I wanted to see how your daughter was and confirm that you were coming to the wedding still. I'm going to assume that you aren't coming and I'm putting you down as a no being that we're giving our headcount today and for the past month you haven't returned any communcication I sent to you. Good luck!'

He totally deserves to be called out on his beotch-ness!

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Posted by elp6421

I know you want to send that text (belived me, I get it!) , but I would not. He is obviously not coming, so why not just leave it at that?

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I agree. I'd only write the first half, ''Hey, since you never sent the rsvp card or responded to my fb msgs and my text, I'm going to assume you're not coming to the wedding.'