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So Upset

jgold910 Posted:

So Upset

I met with photographer last week on Friday....both FH and I fell in love with this person - but my parents wanted to see a couple of other places.....I called today to book - and they told me he was taken. Now....my father took a contract home last week - with this photographers name on it...don't you think out of courtesy - they would have called and let us know someone is ready to book - or even looking on my date? I'm heartbroken....they are trying to push another photographer on us - but after these business practices - I'm not sure I want to work with them anymore.... the only reason we would consider is b/c the offer the best prices - but then again - you pay for what you get....sorry to vent - but im mad - Thanks for listening!
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Awww damn, yea technically they should tell you that someone else is interested....

Who are they??
bartgirl12 Posted:

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they should have called but I'm assuming the other couple was ready to book on the spot, and no business will say no to that. sucks. what photographer?

spdy540 Posted:

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they definitely should have let you know that you that someone else was ready to book them. I know since you left the may have thought you werent coming back but as far a good business practice they should have made sure. Sorry you will find something better
jgold910 Posted:

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Posted by bartgirl12

they should have called but I'm assuming the other couple was ready to book on the spot, and no business will say no to that. sucks. what photographer?

you have FM
Im getting Married Posted:

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That does suck but most places will take the person in front of them ready to book. l'm sure you will find a great photographer

jgold910 Posted:

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Do I go back? Or just go somewhere else together?

IrishAli Posted:

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Posted by Im getting Married

That does suck but most places will take the person in front of them ready to book. l'm sure you will find a great photographer



That's true. It does suck, but money is money, and they probably aren't going to walk away from a contract to call you
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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If you like the company and the work the other photographers do then use them if not find someone else. But don't hold the fact that they booked someone without telling you against them. A lot of people probably are like let me get back to you and then never heard from again so they rather take the booking in front of them it sucks but its business.

HSsweethearts Posted:

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I'm sorry, that really sucks. I had a hall sold out form under me (and they had a $1500 deposit!) so I feel your pain. Some vendors told me they'd hold the date for x days, some told me they'd call, and others told me they would NOT call. I think it's a nice courtesy, but they are def going to take the bird in the hand, KWIM.

UGh. sucks. really sucks. I'd go elsewhere.

Check out Artisan. Chuck is the owner. you ONLY get Chuck. Not only is his work great, but he and his office manager, Lynn have amazing personalities. I just feel like they're really good people. They were really flexible with us when we changed our date. In fact, we postponed our wedding by 4 years and they were the ONLY vendor we kept. We ended up changing everything else, but we're so glad we stuck with Chuck (lol)
lisam1113 Posted:

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I've heard of some vendors holding your day for up to a week. that stinks that they didn't do that. maybe ask the photographer if you can see the one there suggesting to you to see there work they've done..

a similar situation happened to me with ours. My FH told me he wanted to wait till after Christmas bc it was crazy, forgot to inform the photographer & about 2weeks went by thinking there not going to give it away or noone will book this quickly. But we didn't take any written documents home saying who we would have with us like you did in your situation. But when we eventually before going back asked if he could email me some work the photographer being assigned to me has done & was stunned!!!

If you aren't planning on going back to whatever photographer you met with, I do suggest you check out Lighthouse Photography. Amazing staff, great prices & excellent quality photos!! You will not be disappointed in them!!!


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JLWSJC Posted:

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Posted by jgold910

Do I go back? Or just go somewhere else together?



Depends on the photog. They may or may not be worth it... there might be other with similar styles and less shoddy business practices. FM me who it was?
DMLHeartsCRM Posted:

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I know you're upset because it is a sucky situation but you cant exaclty be mad at the studio for conducting business. I mean did you exactly tell them you're very interested in them and to hold the date and you'll get back to them. Because unless you did that they do not have to contact you what so ever. This is the wedding industry they see about 30 brides a day, they have people take contracts home and never call back to book and like they say cash is king, you cant really call it bad business. I know its sucky but you cant really blame them.
anjelagain Posted:

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they might be lying, call in two weeks w/ a diff name

jgold910 Posted:

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Posted by DMLHeartsCRM

I know you're upset because it is a sucky situation but you cant exaclty be mad at the studio for conducting business. I mean did you exactly tell them you're very interested in them and to hold the date and you'll get back to them. Because unless you did that they do not have to contact you what so ever. This is the wedding industry they see about 30 brides a day, they have people take contracts home and never call back to book and like they say cash is king, you cant really call it bad business. I know its sucky but you cant really blame them.

Yes! I would think that taking a contract with the specific photographer's name would be enough - we told them we loved him!
jgold910 Posted:

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Posted by anjelagain

they might be lying, call in two weeks w/ a diff name

That's a thought LOL - at first she's like he's not booked for a wedding - then she said he was hmmmmm
wearefamily608 Posted:

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Unfortunately in the business world they can't read us unless we tell them were we're at. If you seemed interested in booking, a call would have been nice. If they were a vendor on a list of 3 more you were scoping out and you didn't ohh and ahhh while there and said you'd follow up I would not expect to contact you. It's not easy sometimes because you want to make the right decision

jgold910 Posted:

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The problem is FH works overnites - he comes to meetings thurs or fridays - he's annoyed b/c he thought we were done....now he's being a big baby and said only make appointments on fridays - it will take me until my wedding to find someone

LaTour Posted:

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Try Sandi Rufo Photography

www.sandirufophotography.com

My sister used her last year and now I'm using her for my wedding next year. She's awesome!
Cataverri Posted:

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They are suppose to call you and give you heads up!!!

However, I would call and tell them that the only way you would book them is if '******' is your photographer, not the other guy.

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