We have been arguing a lot over the 2 last todays (about his temper, which he said he was sorry about, and his driving). Well we just got home and he asked which room I am gonna be bc he will be in the opposit. I am so upset over this stupid fighting. I work every other weekend and now he wants nothing to do with me bc his driving scares me. I want to leave but I have no where to go. I just want to hang out with him and enojy our down time but now i'm all alone Sorry, I just needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening
allornil
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Hmmm is my FH twins w yours? I hate when he drives. Hes a menace and dangerous and wont listen when i tell him to slow down. Ive gotten to work in tears more than once. He's calmed down a bit but it was bad.
I totally hear why you're upset. Sit him down and say i only have every other weekend off from work and dont want to waste it fighting.
Meanwhile, im home alone bc FH told me he wasnt taking me to his grandmother's bday bc i was mad he wouldnt get ready on time. The bbq started at like 4 and he just left. We live an hour and a half away. So after he finally got ready he asked if i was coming. I was stubborn and said no. If he said, please ames i want you to come, i would have gone. But he kept asking me if i was going or if i wanted to go. Never said he wanted me to go, so im home alone w no car to go anywhere. Duh.
Tromsugar2b
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men can be so difficult
PhyllisNJoe
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Stubborn!
They totally get PMS. I could swear up and down that's what it is.
Ang9483
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ughh my hubby annoys me more then he doesn't
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men can be so difficult
I agree. I think you need to give him some time to cool off and then maybe approach him to talk about the situation. Sometimes people get so caught up in the moment that they don't realize that what got them so upset wasn't really that big of a deal. Hopefully he'll have some time to cool off and you guys can resolve this situation. Sorry to hear this is hapening to u guys
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my fh thinks he's a race car driver,,,well he suckssssssssssssssssss...boys will be boys...they thinks they are super heroes when they drive... don't worry ..the fight shall pass as they all do
JillandNick2011
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now he is acting like nothing happened...it's so fusterating
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Posted by JillandNick2011
now he is acting like nothing happened...it's so fusterating
Thats what they do. They yell and moan and act like a baby and then 20 minutes later they pretend like nothing happen!!! I agree I think they totally PMS!
JillandNick2011
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but am i suppose to just forget about it? I am so upset and I can't just forget it. My heart hurts because of it. Thank you so much for listening. It really means a lot to me.
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Im sorry youre dealing with this.. maybe he just needs time to cool off. Im sure everything will be fine! Im here if you need to talk!
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aww girl i know what you mean... guys can be so stupid sometimes... esp when they dont admit when they are wrong...
i have learn not to ruin my day or feed into my fiance's crapp or his temper... but i can understand how frustrating or diffucult this can be b/c you live with him and its not changing..
i always say go with the '24 hr rule'... sometime both parties need to go to bed angry and cool off, have a glass a wine and just let each other be.. and then talk about it l later....
but there need to be change... you cant keep having the same argument day in and day out.. thats the problem i have w/ my FH ... yes, you may have a bad day but that doesnt justify for a rude behavior towards others..
i dont have time anymore for ones BS esp from men anymore...i will tell you whats buggin me once or twice.. but if i need to repeat myself once more.. either love me or im gone ( as per Jay-z)
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but am i suppose to just forget about it? I am so upset and I can't just forget it. My heart hurts because of it. Thank you so much for listening. It really means a lot to me.
You dont have to forget it but bringing it up over and over wont help. Guys dont think like us. They figure they'll just move on and it will be ok.
Dont be like me. Sat night and im sitting home alone regretting not going and worrying that FH is gonna come home mad.
When i was really upset w him, i wrote him a letter explaining how i felt and it really helped. He finally understood that i was hurt by his actions and apologized for it.
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i would move past it. my fh does stupid stuff like that all the time- 2 seconds later he is over it and gets mad at me if i am not...grrrr so frustrating!!
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FH and I slept in different rooms two nights in a row. we usually dont fight but this month its crazy!!
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FH and I slept in different rooms two nights in a row. we usually dont fight but this month its crazy!!
OMG i so know what you girls are going through and I'm sorry!!!!!!!! I hate to fight and go to bed angry. We have had a rough 2 weeks with his stress and being in and out of the docs and er!!!! I went to my friends house 2 weekends ago to get away from him because he was such a beast!!!!!!! Good luck!!!!!!
