fh and I just got into a hugh fight and he left and I called him and he started crying to me on the phone. I shouldn't have done what I did because his parents are getting divorced and his dad disowned him and he was crying and now I feel horrible that I did that and he wont come back he just wants to go home. im such a jerk for doing that. I feel so so bad I had such a bad day today!!!!
4/3/2008: we talked last night and he was crying to me on the phone and i got more upset and i didnt sleep last night and i ended up getting a migrane and i feel so sick, I just want to go home and go to bed. Also i want to thank you ladies for all of your kind word. Thanks,
michesq
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oh no- it will be ok. we all have those days and say the wrong things or get upset. let him have his space tonight he is going through a tough time too- here are some hugs for you hope they help
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We all have bad days. And yes we all have arguments. Best to let him relax at home & just be. Try speaking withhim later or tomorrow & let him know how sorry you are.
ddnsp618
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oh shoot. im so sorry, just let him relax and then apoligize--everything will be good.
mcbride62009
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My day ****** like that on Wed. and today when I woke up I took a deep breath and said its a new day! Drink a glass of wine give him some time to relax and I am sure things will get better.
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yes, sometimes its better to let them let a little steam out. If he wont answer ur calls maybe u can text him and express how sorry u are and didnt really mean to do it.
MrsDtoBe09
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Aww I'm sorry. Don't stress yourself out over it - if he was upset to begin with then it must have been easy to add fuel to the fire. Wait it out for tonight and think of something you can do for him tomorrow that will make him feel special
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It's okay - when the both of you have calmed down you can apologize for whatever it is that you did. Explain you are having a bad day and you should not have taken things out on FH.
I don't know if that helps at all - but good luck and I hope things get better soon.
MrsBtobe2009
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Oh Don't worry! It will be ok. We all have these days.
Utterhappiness
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thats first!
OK look..like everyone said, we all have those days and unfort we take it out on those closest to us...but he loves you and he will want to sit down and talk to you and communicate... good luck!! We are here though if ya need us!
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I am sorry.... try calling him again later and stay calm and if you think you were wrong, just apologize and give him time if he is hurt. I know it is hard but hang in there and we are here if you need to talk about it more!
bkposh
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i am sure that deep down he knows you didnt really mean it...
it will all eventually be ok
baba022
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OMG!!! We are having one of those days/nights too...my prob is that I can't go to sleep upset and his prob is when he is mad or upset, he needs to be left alone.....so we comprimised a little (cause I was ready to get in my car and go there...LOL) ...LOL But it will be ok...for you and me!!! give him some time and he will be fine...let him go home and relax and chill out....Tomorrow is a new day....and you guys will talk then
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You and FH are getting married because you guys always found the strength to get through everything..you will find your way again and everything will be ok!!!
CMS
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Awww don't worry sweetie...
By now, it sounds kind of trite to say, 'We all have days like that...' because you can see just by the posts here that we all really have. Give him some time to cool off and things will be fine tomorrow.
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Give him some space and time to cool off. Tomorrow is a brand new day
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frenchy702
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me and the FH had that day yesterday... almost the same as your day to the T. But you just have to take a deep breath and move forward and learn from it. You know he loves you and is just going through a lot right now, you both will get through this. HUGS!!!
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you will get through this... i am sure that he is just having a rough time with this parents situation.... and that's the MAIN reason why he is soo upset.. just be there for him and it will work out!
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Awh, I'm so sorry. I'm sure everything will work out. There are so many emotions surrounding your FH, he probably just needed time alone. And I'm sure the main reason he walked out wasn't really because of what you said, but just a reaction to when you feel you can't take anymore. Sometimes you just want to get in your car or go for a long walk and just unwind. When he does come back (which I'm sure won't be long) just be there with open arms. I know we've all said things we regret when we had a bad day, I;'m sure he's not going to hold it against you. I'm so sorry you both have to go through all this during such a happy time in your life.
