So what would you do??
So my dad's twin sister (my aunt) adopted twins from Italy (whom I LOVE). I was thinking a few months back to include them, but after spending time with them, FH and I decided that a wedding my size may scare them. Its bad enough our RB and FG are going to end up crying or hiding the entire time.
Sidenote: We had our FG and RB picked out before the girls were adopted. The day they got adopted was an Unbelievable happy day for me.
My dad opened his mouth (can't be mad at him for this but it put me in a bind) to his sister about the twins in the wedding. Now there is all this speculation that they are in it, and its me in the middle. Well here is the problem.
Dad says: 'Just ask you Aunt. Let her decide if they are old enough to walk down the aisle. Besides, its the year anny that they've been in this country..Do me the favor and ask please'
Another side note: My daddy has contributed ALOT to this wedding. I mean a lot. Fh and i paying for it mostly, but my dad picked up a small portion of it. Plus the shower. Plus the RH Dinner (in his backyard). Plus he bought my veil but I'm not suppose to know. I'm his first born. And I think this is important to him.
FH says 'NO! We have enough people in the wedding party (20 something) and I don't want all these kids running around. It's an adult only reception. Besides, they will be petrified and I'll feel horrible that they are crying.'
I am torn. Because as much as I want them to be in it, I am nervous that it may be too much. Not to mention I am a push over for my daddy, and I hate to 'disappoint' him. But FH and I fought over this before, and he is stubborn about it.
What do I do? I mean, I have an FG already, so I prob give the twins kissing balls or something.
Like Its tough. B/C I'm stuck having to upset one of the 2 men I care most about, and that kills me. (Like i need this stress!) And trust me, I am not one for this right now, not after the shyt week I had.
One more thing, my aunt is my Godmother. Add more fuel to fire. And the bp is mostly FH's family and friends ( my is family are like 5 people...) Now I'm feeling guilty. HELP!
Sidenote: We had our FG and RB picked out before the girls were adopted. The day they got adopted was an Unbelievable happy day for me.
My dad opened his mouth (can't be mad at him for this but it put me in a bind) to his sister about the twins in the wedding. Now there is all this speculation that they are in it, and its me in the middle. Well here is the problem.
Dad says: 'Just ask you Aunt. Let her decide if they are old enough to walk down the aisle. Besides, its the year anny that they've been in this country..Do me the favor and ask please'
Another side note: My daddy has contributed ALOT to this wedding. I mean a lot. Fh and i paying for it mostly, but my dad picked up a small portion of it. Plus the shower. Plus the RH Dinner (in his backyard). Plus he bought my veil but I'm not suppose to know. I'm his first born. And I think this is important to him.
FH says 'NO! We have enough people in the wedding party (20 something) and I don't want all these kids running around. It's an adult only reception. Besides, they will be petrified and I'll feel horrible that they are crying.'
I am torn. Because as much as I want them to be in it, I am nervous that it may be too much. Not to mention I am a push over for my daddy, and I hate to 'disappoint' him. But FH and I fought over this before, and he is stubborn about it.
What do I do? I mean, I have an FG already, so I prob give the twins kissing balls or something.
Like Its tough. B/C I'm stuck having to upset one of the 2 men I care most about, and that kills me. (Like i need this stress!) And trust me, I am not one for this right now, not after the shyt week I had.
One more thing, my aunt is my Godmother. Add more fuel to fire. And the bp is mostly FH's family and friends ( my is family are like 5 people...) Now I'm feeling guilty. HELP!
