well maybe you can compromise in some way- still have a wedding but not go overboard so its the best of both worlds. He can still have his wedding but then not have as many people so you are happy to..
Is he dead set on Lands end? bc there are other places less exp on the water that are just as nice.
i cut that budget down to bare bones. It's just not worth it to me to worry. And yes, he is.
hell, maybe by next year, he'll wanna go away for 3 weeks and elope. whoohoo! lol
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yeah its hard when you really want something one way but you both have to compromise. So you both can be happy!! I have a huge bridal party so the thought of having a destination wedding would never happen for me unless it were free.. lol
Eloping sounds good- but i have never walked down the aisle before and have always wanted to have a wedding!
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yeah its hard when you really want something one way but you both have to compromise. So you both can be happy!! I have a huge bridal party so the thought of having a destination wedding would never happen for me unless it were free.. lol
Eloping sounds good- but i have never walked down the aisle before and have always wanted to have a wedding!
lol I meant eloping alone..no one else invited! lol although...some would wanna go so it would have to be a surprise so they wouldn't. lol
Ant wants to be a bride. I'm letting him. I can deal w 30k for 2012. I can't for 2011. I mean, I COULD do it...but I'd have a mental breakdown.
This way I can also finish my kitchen. I may buy a new stove tomorrow lol.
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good for you for prioritizing your life! Its totally not worth the stress over $$. I hope everything works out for the best, no matter what. You will be so much happier in the end! I'm glad you are sticking around here though
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well, i hope you do whatevers best for you guys- as long as you never leave meeee
allornil
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I;m never leaving you guys! You're so stuck w me!
VCanizalez
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=) I dont mind being STUCK to u Amy!!!! Love yaaaaaaaaa even thoug we dont meet =( bc u dont come to g2g...
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=) I dont mind being STUCK to u Amy!!!! Love yaaaaaaaaa even thoug we dont meet =( bc u dont come to g2g...
ahem..we are going to lunch or out after work soon!
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=) I dont mind being STUCK to u Amy!!!! Love yaaaaaaaaa even thoug we dont meet =( bc u dont come to g2g...
ahem..we are going to lunch or out after work soon!
