So my sister told me she asked my cousin so how do you plan on doing your hair for the wedding. My cousins response was straight and down like I usually do it everyday. So my sister said well I think Jamie wants everyone's hair done. And she asked WHY...OMG I seriously just can not. I had already sent out an email to everyone stating that I don't care how they wear there hair as long as it done. Did she really think done meant doing it herself. So I just im'd her online and told her about my new hair person and I asked her if she planned on using my girl or her own since she lives in the city. She said well I haven't figured it out yet. I have this feeling shes going to show up with just her plain hair. She also told my sister that she wasn't going to have her dress altered if it was short enough and she just didn't care about the rest and she also thinks it's ridiculous that I want everyone to wear dyed shoes to match the dresses. : I am really close with my cousin and she's one of my best friends but she is going to drive me to drink right now, Why are some BM's do difficult?
JamieAnt06202009
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Posted by JamDancer
If you are willing to pay for hers then I don't see the issue. I wouldn't make them get their hair done and make them pay for it. If you offer to pay then I don't think it's bridezillaish.
Did you already tell her you'd pay for it? And she still doesn't want to? I know some girls don't like their hair up but at least they could put rollers in it or something...
I told them they can wear there hair, up, down, half up however they want it. I haven't discussed paying for it because she never said money was a problem but I do plan on suggesting it. She also said 8:30 in the morning is too early for her which is the time I'm having my hair done so I told her she could stay at my house if shes worried about the time. She told me it's way too soon for her to be thinking about any of this. My cousin has a different style then most and doesn't see things the same way. Her friends who have been married have all had casual destination weddings. I guess whatever happens happens.
littlepixie12
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I think so BMs are so difficult because they cant handle that the bride gets all the attention ... they are probably jealous... that is usually the answer to everything
MLAngelo
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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124
Dont take this the wrong way, I understand where you're coming from, but IMO, I cant make my BMs get their hair done. I told them to make it as nice as possible and I have a curling iron, hot rollers, and pins so they can fix it at my house if they want to.
Do you have any friends in the BP that are good with hair? They might make a big difference!
Its hard to pay for a dress and shoes plus get hair done...
I agree. I am not asking my BMs to get their hair done. One of my BMs is doing it herself for her own wedding, she just doesn't have the funds, so I certainly can't ask her to pay to have it done for mine. I am encouraging it, but not requiring. If her hair is a mess I know people will help her fix it, but I am sure she can make it pretty herself.
As for dyeable shoes, that they really need to just do.
