no you were upset and you had every right to react that way- it is not fair at all that they would both put you on the spot like that I think it is very rude!
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thats messed up of you friend.. i would be sooo pissed at her.. you are definitely not being snobby or a beast..
Maria31
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Noooo! You are NOT being a baby or a beast! Who invites themselves to a wedding??? I just don't get it...
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WOW that is kinda crazy to beg somebody to go to their wedding, really strange. I couldn't imagine doing that and saying 'oh ill pay for myself too' and the fact that she is OOT is even more strange. You are not wrong at all and your bm is wrong for putting you on the spot
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Were you a beast are you kidding?!?! OMG I would have seriously killed your BM! If anything you were too nice about it. I mean seriously, are they kidding. Who force invites themselves to someone's wedding. You need to tell your BM that she is really being rude! If YOU will WANT to invite this girl, you will, but she doesn't need to be shoved down your throat! I'll talk to her for you if you'd like !
LoveRocks
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It was really tacky for your BM to put you in such an uncomfortable position.
And you are so not a beast
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you are surely not a beast or a baby, this bm should have never put you on the spot like that, especially since you told her that you were not interested in talking on a 3way conversation.
i would most likely not invite her now, bc of the situation. tell your bm thats its your wedding not her and you will invite who ever you choose to invite and if she not on the get list she will have to get over it. I would also make it very clear that if she is not invited and she shows up that she wont be welcome to come in to the reception
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Wow, imo, that's really messed up of your bm to put you in that situation.....good for you for telling it like it is. I can't believe after all that, she's still looking up flights...sounds strange (dare I say psycho?)......I would definitely not invite her, even if you have room.....she just sounds too desperate to come.
KK Holiday
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you are not a beast!!! this friend of a friend is the one being a baby!!! 'but i really want to come' is she serious?????
this is a wedding, not a hot party. it is your day and you should surround yourself with the people you love!!!!!
i would have flat out said NO because she was just being inappropriate
good luck with this one!!
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Wow, I would tell your friend she has some nerve. I mean how would she feel if you did something like this? What the hell is wrong with her? And what's wrong with this other chick begging you to come to your wedding?!?!?!
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Wow, your BM and her friend have some balls! Talk about rude. Even if you have the extra space I wouldn't invite her. Although if she is already looking up tickets it seems like she might just show up anyway. Is your BM invited with a guest? If she is (and isn't bringing someone else) I wouldn't be surprised if she brings her friend.
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Oh & you know what else...
That is freakin CREEPY. 1 - no one would ever have to tell me I wasn't invited someplace, because I would never force myself on someone. 2 - I can't even imagine still going ahead & trying to go after I knew this & even call up the person, then look up tickets.
This whole thing sounds suspicious. Is there something more to this? I always try to look deeper into things. But is there any chance this person is well ...closer to your BM that you know? I mean why is it so important to have this out of town person there with her?
deed766
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That B*tch is psycho. jk! I think you handled it very well because i would had put that bm on blast. Your BM should have known better.
DD628
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that is the rudest thing i have ever heard. how dare she???
ant n tilde
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wow by any chance are you friends 16?
what kind of ADULT would ever do something like that, that is the most immature thing i have ever heard
its not like this is some sweet16 and she wants to see if she can meet any cute boys there - she is an adult - this is a celebration of a MARRIAGE not just some random house party
but you must be having SOME wedding if people want to come this badly - can i come?!
