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*Someone needs to explain what Happened*

Original post by MrsInglima

I am going to take it upon myself to try to make this as drama free as possible.

For those of you who are confused...

Some of the girls on the board felt the need to start a new board to post on because there was a lot of drama going on here a few months ago. According to them, they wanted a place to come to post about different wedding things, vent, and also talk about things that were personal and didn't want to talk about on here.

In the process, these girls became good friends and began hanging out and doing things together. People have accused them of being a clique. The board was by invite only and they started to post DFZ (for Drama Free Zone) to promote no drama on the original LIW that we all love.

As time progressed posts ranting about the content of the boards here started up bashing general ideas and threads as well as specific people. A lot of people participated in these boards, but just as many didn't or tried to difuse the situation.

Around noon or so someone posted a link to the website informing all of us. The initial thread and a couple of the response threads were taken down by Kim to try to keep the peace. As a lot of arguing ensued and many of the girls were hurt. The board where all the bashing took place was also taken down, so none of the links work and you cannot find it or any of the posts anymore. Some of the information was saved, but the girls who have saved the quotes have not yet posted anything.

The 09ers Shower was canceled as a response to so many people pulling out of the shower after feeling hurt or being hurt by the secret boards. Some of the people (both guilty and innocent) are also deleting their accounts on here as well.

This thread is just to inform people of this and I will not tolerate drama on here! Please do not post nasty things, post positive things only.

I agree that it is totally not fair. I think it is petty and horrible and I'm hurt by all of this even though I didn't see anything about me on there. I just think that we shouldn't let what happened THERE ruin what happens HERE.

If you have a problem with something someone said about you. Don't fight about it here, FM that person. Let's be adults from now on.
tinadansr Posted:

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well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!


i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary
egem523 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!


i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary


My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to 'keep' the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by egem523

Posted by Espo22

Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!


i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary


My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.


EXACTLY!!!!!!!!! And this kinda stuff went on and on...
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by egem523

Posted by Espo22

Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!


i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary


My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.


oh i didnt know that, i didnt see they were saying nice things on here. See that is exactly why i will always appreciate someone who can tell it to me straight up or not say anything at all. I'd rather know how somebody feels rather than have someone nice to my face, me liking the person and then find out they talk behind your back and say horrible things.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to 'keep' the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...


i think it would be weird with so many women if we didnt disagree once in a while then you would know that EVERYBODY was being fake

If someone paid for the shower and now its cancelled then they should get their money back, i dont see why one person should get to keep that money.
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to 'keep' the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...


i think it would be weird with so many women if we didnt disagree once in a while then you would know that EVERYBODY was being fake

If someone paid for the shower and now its cancelled then they should get their money back, i dont see why one person should get to keep that money.


denise...u should win bride of the year? do they have that ?lol
egem523 Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to 'keep' the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...


Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-
egem523 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by egem523

Posted by Espo22

Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!


i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary


My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.


oh i didnt know that, i didnt see they were saying nice things on here. See that is exactly why i will always appreciate someone who can tell it to me straight up or not say anything at all. I'd rather know how somebody feels rather than have someone nice to my face, me liking the person and then find out they talk behind your back and say horrible things.


Look for the post last week that Tina posted about her POB or Melissa Sweet gown they were all saying how nice it was. I was pissed off
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by egem523

Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-


Its a shame that it gets ruined for the bunch... Hopefully we could postpone it and the vendors still be okay with it... I mean its a chance for them to show off their work and obtain potential clients so I'd hope they;d still be onboard with the idea
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by egem523

Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to 'keep' the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...


Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-



i contacted a bunch of vendors myself...so hopefully they wont mind if we change the date
egem523 Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Posted by egem523

Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-


Its a shame that it gets ruined for the bunch... Hopefully we could postpone it and the vendors still be okay with it... I mean its a chance for them to show off their work and obtain potential clients so I'd hope they;d still be onboard with the idea


I hope so too
shalice Posted:

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Hey 09'ers, I have no idea what's going on (too lazy to read but probably will) but wanna wish all the hot mamas Happy Mother's Day to them and all the hot mamas in their life! HOW U DOIN!










FH & I plan on joining the hot mama's club next year on HM! HOW U DOIN! BOOMCHICAWAWA




Tori9299 Posted:

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I contacted a bunch of vendors myself...so hopefully they wont mind if we change the date


Thanks for doing that. I hope they are cool with it.
LegoBride Posted:

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She should have thought about that before they started the other site

LegoBride Posted:

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Posted by tinadansr

Posted by mcbride62009

Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...


I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.


If you feel so strongly about this why don't you offer to pay half


BEST RESPONSE!!!
Soon2BMrsC09 Posted:

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Posted by LegoBride

Posted by tinadansr

Posted by mcbride62009

Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...


I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.


If you feel so strongly about this why don't you offer to pay half


BEST RESPONSE!!!



by far!
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by Tori9299


I contacted a bunch of vendors myself...so hopefully they wont mind if we change the date


Thanks for doing that. I hope they are cool with it.


i really hope so too...

unfortuntley half were contacted by someone else..and hopefully she will be nice enough to FM the info she's got and let this get done for all the 09ers ( u know who you are...so please i hope you do) im not gonna bash you on here(cause my mama raised me better than that) but hopefully u read this and come around..
mdawg Posted:

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i wasnt going to the shower anyway, but if i was going, i surely wouldnt be now.

its truly unfortunate that this happened.

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