Something strange.....not quite sure what to do...
Original post by HearzBellz
I have been having strange dreams, sometimes nightmares about the 'one that got away.' It is really bothering me because I haven't though about him in YEARS & now 3 nights in a row.....
Did anyone else have this happen; am I just getting cold feet?
patrice1128
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OMG so am I. Very weird. Then I've been waking up in a bad mood the next day. Can't explain it.
Jordan
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This just started with me this week...I've thought about this particular ex on and off for years - we were together through some tough 'growing' years and I've always been grateful to him for allowing me to grow into who I am now. We ended on good terms and I have seen him a few times since then - but it's been a couple of years. I actually called him this week to see how he was...but never got a hold of him.
I'm glad I'm not the only one - I was starting to freak out...and like Patrice, my mood changed.
dcbride
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I had those dreams too- they have kind of transformed into wedding nightmares where I call off the wedding at the church- I think I would prefer to have dreams about other guys again.
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although it did not happen to me...I hear it is very normal to have such dreams. You are starting a new life and saying good bye to your old one.
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I've been having them all the time- they wake me up in the middle of the night. Sometimes I actually think about going to see how he's doing, and I get all sad.... and then I realize, I really wouldn't want to marry him... but sometimes it takes a day or 2 before I realize it.
HearzBellz
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hmmmm... i just wish they would go away! I wake up scared, not really in a bad mood, just scared. I had one again last night they are getting more vivid.
Xelindrya
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I don't think this is strange. The complete love of my life, the man of my dreams and the man I saw my future children with - The Mr. Right... is what I refer to as 'The' Ex.
I still love him and we still talk. He's invited, believe it or not, to my wedding.
We were great as people, horrible as a couple. He had his chances. He messed them all up. He cheated, lied, apologized, paid the price and learned from it all. He's actually a better man now. I wish him and his girl all the best (he actually told me he might marry her).
I'm ok with this all. I accept that I love my fiance for what he is and for what WE are. Togther we are happy, content and complete. It's not the hot flash passion god-I'll-die-if-he's-not-near-me that the other was, but we are mature and I feel strong about our relationship.
I can see myself growing Old with my fiance and never being hurt. For that I am content.
My exes were all training lessons for me. It just narrowed down what was real for me and what I needed plus wanted. I found it all in Jim (fiance).
Actually I am on speaking terms with all Exes. And knowing them all well, I am so glad it's Jim I'm marrying. I even tell him so. We have a very open, honest relationship.
