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Something to think about

natasha Posted:

Something to think about

How you spend your 'dash'?

I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning... to the end.

He noted that first came her date of birth,
and spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years. (1934-1998)

For that dash represents all the time

that she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars... the house... the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile.
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?
WithThisRing Posted:

Re: Something to think about

In college I took an elective class called 'Greiving and dying in america' (a very weird and morbid class) and the professor read that poem to us.

Then we had to write our own Obituaries.

The most morbid part of the class was we had to go to the computer lab and there was a special program we had to go to and it generated a tombstone with our name and birthdate and that date being the day we died.

That class really opened my eyes to life is too short.
OctBride03 Posted:

Re: Something to think about

Very nice poem!
DaniRN Posted:

Re: Something to think about

My obituary would say that I was addicted to LIW!!!

WithThisRing Posted:

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LOL I wrote that I was a billionaire living it up in a nice tropical climate.

We also had to sit in a circle, on a piece of paper write down our most prized possession, who would we give it to and why. Then we had to individually stand up and read it. After it was read crumbled it up and toss it in the waste basket. Then the professor would say after you tossed it, Poof you are dead, how do you think that person will feel that you are leaving them your prized possession.

It was a very very morbid class

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