In 2 weeks Saturday the 24th, I am supposed to go to a baby shower. It is for the woman who happened to set FH & I up. >>>>>>However this is her 4th child. She is re-married but this is her 2nd kid with her husband now.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< ~~~~~~So.....I think that it is the day of my SHOWER~~~~~~~~~ Do people have baby showers if it is NOT their first Baby??? I dropped hints past FH & my Mom but they are Not saying a word. I haven't checked to see if she is registered, but FH said that she is at Target. I guess, I'll have to wait and find out. If Not my Shower than maybe my Bachlorette Party then???
ntunison
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Yes, a friend of mine had a shower for each time she was pregnant -- she has 4 kids...
but it is very unusual!!!!
malagian
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I have only seen them for the 1st child, you never know it might be your shower.
milana
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im not too sure about this one sorry
diva7531
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Aw don't ruin it for them!!! I know how hard people work to plan surprises. If you think you know keep it to yourself
But on the other hand if the kids are spread far apart, they'll have another shower. I told my friends for my nexy baby I want a sprinkle! But now it's six years since my last BABY! I want a full blown shower, so if you know my sister, let her know
Dee606
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It used to only be done with your first child but now people are doing it with every kid
Christys0925
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my sister had a shower for both her pregnancies
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Is Sat the 24th? That's funny b/c I was thinking my Shower may be that exact weekend too. No one said anything, but I just have a feeling so I'm keeping it to myself. THis weekend is my first fitting and FIL's are on vacation. Next weekend FIL's have a party and we're meeting with the florist. It's gotta be the 24th.
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Posted by diva7531
Aw don't ruin it for them!!! I know how hard people work to plan surprises. If you think you know keep it to yourself
But on the other hand if the kids are spread far apart, they'll have another shower. I told my friends for my nexy baby I want a sprinkle! But now it's six years since my last BABY! I want a full blown shower, so if you know my sister, let her know
DON'T Get me Wrong, I Do want to be Surprised!!!
sugarkube4
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I'd be VERY suspicious!! BUT.... make sure you look FABULOUS that day!!!!
jenn122397
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my mom had a baby shower when she had me (i was the first) didn't have one when mr brother was born and then had another when my sister was born (BUT I am 13 years older and my bro is 10 years older than our sister so maybe that is why)
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I have been to MANY second baby showers But you never know!!
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It's very common that women have a baby shower for each kid. Its funny I have a baby shower for the 24th as well and I originally thought it was going to be my shower, but I am pretty sure its just the baby shower.
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Have you seen an invitation for this baby shower?
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Most of my friend's have had a shower for each baby. But if you didn't get an invite that that's a little suspicious
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If it's woman who set you guys up.... IT'S YOUR SHOWER! I don't think people have showers for their FOURTH kid.... i think they're trying to surpirse you!
ruzi777
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If it's woman who set you guys up.... IT'S YOUR SHOWER! I don't think people have showers for their FOURTH kid.... i think they're trying to surpirse you!
I think so TOO!!! It just dawned on me before, Wait, I think it's my shower!!!!! But, I Really want to be Surprised, so I am not going to push the subject anymore!!
ruzi777
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Posted by jenn122397
my mom had a baby shower when she had me (i was the first) didn't have one when mr brother was born and then had another when my sister was born (BUT I am 13 years older and my bro is 10 years older than our sister so maybe that is why)
All the kids are only a couple of years apart. No mare than 5 years.
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Aw don't ruin it for them!!! I know how hard people work to plan surprises. If you think you know keep it to yourself
But on the other hand if the kids are spread far apart, they'll have another shower. I told my friends for my nexy baby I want a sprinkle! But now it's six years since my last BABY! I want a full blown shower, so if you know my sister, let her know
DON'T Get me Wrong, I Do want to be Surprised!!!
OH good, I love surprises, but they are hard to pull of on me! But I know how dissapointed people get when the surprisee finds out!!!
ruzi777
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DON'T Get me Wrong, I Do want to be Surprised!!!
OH good, I love surprises, but they are hard to pull of on me! But I know how dissapointed people get when the surprisee finds out!!! My problem , is other people ruining the surprises!!! I've had people ask me about stuff on my regristry already.