Sometime FH makes me want to....(LONG)

Last night I was talking with him about how I had three things I wanted to get done over the summer: flowers, invites, HM.

Well invites are just about done, I got my quote, I'm just waiting for my proof in the mail.

Flowers though, as many of you know I'm using a friend to do my flowers. Well can I just say he s*cks at keeping in touch. When I met with him in the beginning of July, we said we'd meet again in the second week of August so he could make some samples. So I emailed him in the last week of July to see what day/time would work for him. No answer. Another email the first week of August. No answer. Another email on August 8. No answer. So the second week of August came and went with no response. Another email August 24.....no answer. My mom happened to run into his uncle the other night, and he's on vacation the past two weeks. So I'm like, ok that's fine, but what happened the two weeks before that???? So I still have yet to see any samples, and he's a teacher, so he goes back to work in a week.

I tell FH this and his response: 'Who cares???' I'm like what???? He says they're just flowers, no one pays attention to them, and we can figure them out closer to the wedding Then he says that if my friend doesn't come through, we'll just go to a different florist. I'm like 'they're all going to be a lot more expensive and will probably be booked by then!!!!' He tells me no one will even care if we just put a candle on each table......and he meant ONE candle.......


Then last night we're discussing HM. Looks like we're going on a European cruise instead of Australia. It just makes more sense and is a whole lot more feasible financially. Great! I tell him we need to speak with his parents (they're footing the bill for it). He's all 'don't worry about it,....we have time.' And I tell him that I wanted to have it booked by the end of the summer. What if prices go up? So he says then we'll figure something else out. He looks at me and says 'well it's just a vacation.......who cares where we go?' And of course I'm all 'just a vacation??? It's our HM!!!!'


Then he says to me....'what are you so worried about....we've got plenty of time and everything's done' WHAT??? Everything's done???

I swear, sometimes he just makes me want to